Hi Tennielle - You are obviously trying so hard so you have the will to go all the way. I think Lainey is on to something with trying step 2, and if that is too strong try step 3. At least it would give you some help. I quit with the patch myself and cut them down a little between each step. After I had been on step 3 for 3 or 4 weeks, I cut them in half so that it would not leave me hanging. My doctor was in total agreement as he says there should be at least 1 more step down past 7 mg. I know that some people say not to cut them but we were told at our stop smoking seminar through the health clinic that it was completely safe to do so. You could check it out yourself. I just know that it worked for me and it just might make the difference for you. Good luck. Jo