Lady,
Your post struck a chord with me. So often you see people join the SSC with the good intentions of quitting smoking. Unfortunately, many, too many, fail. They all have their reasons. Most underestimated the strength of this addiction. Many live with smokers who make it much more difficult. Many get consumed by their quits and get lost in a sea of emotions that drown them.
As I've said on this site so many, many times, quitting takes Strength, Determination, Commitment and A Positive Attitude. You have to want to quit more than you want that smoke. You have to steadfastly stay the course, through all that this wretched addiction will throw your way. Do I make it sound too hard? No. I'm just not sugar coating the quit process. Do you have to go to war and become some quit maniac? Of course not. You simply have to want to quit and do whatever you need to do to maintain your quit. Simple as that.
Lady, you wrote "Do not give up on yourself". How true. How so very, very true. New quitters often get discouraged when they get a crave after being quit for a few weeks or even months. They don't understand what is really going on with their bodies. Learn people. Read all you can about the quit process and about how to live as a recovering smoker.
[b][color=black]Winston Churchill in 1941 made a great speech about never giving in... here is an excerpt...[/color]
[color=blue]Never give in. Never give in. Never, never, never, never--in nothing, great or small, large or petty--never give in, except to convictions of honor and good sense.[/color]
"honor and good sense" Quitting smoking is truly "good sense".
[b][color=Purple]Be Strong. Be Smart. Be Quit[/color]
[color=black]Joe[/color]
[size=3][color=Blue]Knowledge Replaces Fear[/color][/size]
[size=2][color=black]Illegitimus non carborundum est[/color][/size][/b]
[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/15/2005
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 341
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 8,538
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $835.45
[B]Life Gained:[/B]
[B]Days:[/B] 59 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 27 [B]Seconds:[/B] 1
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Quit Meter
$36,496.80
Amount Saved
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Quit Meter
Days: 9812
Hours: 10
Minutes: 27
Seconds: 56
Life Gained
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Quit Meter
45621
Smoke Free Days
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Quit Meter
364,968
Cigarettes Not Smoked