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17 years ago 0 932 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hey There Sherri and Welcome!!! Congratulations on making the decision to quit. You CAN do this. We're here for you every step of the way. Don't be scared. Explain to your husband and kids that you will be going through withdrawals and cravings so your mood won't be just real peachy all of the time. I guarantee you, you're just as important to your family so they'll be patient or they hide. One or the other but, what counts is that you quit. Right? Get ready to drink lots and lots of water.....I mean lots of water. It helps with cravings and cleans your system out. Get something for that hand to mouth thing like hard candy, gum, sunflower seeds, roasted and salted peanuts in the shell, toothpicks, etc. Make a list of reasons why you want to quit...this really does help. Avoid those places and things (triggers) that you associate with smoking. If you can't avoid them, then change them up. (My computer was a huge trigger for me so I changed it up by rearranging and cleaning my desk, putting a nice candle and a candy jar in place of the ashtray, and things like that.) Make a list of your triggers and know how you'll deal with them. When a craving comes, inhale slowly and deep through your nose and exhale slowly from your mouth. But get up, move around, busy yourself when that craving comes i.e. take a walk, wash your hair, brush your teeth, clean something in the house, etc. With each craving, remind yourself that your body is healing. Stay close to this site....read a lot and post a lot. We're here for you and will support you all of the way. Take a look at the workbook over to the left. It really helps you so much. Stay Strong and Do Not Be Afraid, Tutti [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 2/18/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 50 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,282 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $179.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 8 [B]Mins:[/B] 54 [B]Seconds:[/B] 52
17 years ago 0 18 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
hi - - you will have mood swings the first 2 weeks but it should ok after that. they will understand and feel proud of you. just do it now before is too late! good luck [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 4/1/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 8 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 130 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $32 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 23 [B]Seconds:[/B] 51
17 years ago 0 2436 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Dear sherri - Preparation really is everything on this quit journey. Spend as much time as possible on this website, reading, reading, reading... everything you need to know is right here, I can promise you that! Those who have gone before you and before me, have taken the time to share their journeys --their challenges, their wins and their losses... You will need to build a toolbox of coping skills, to get you through the tough times. I have a first time, cold turkey successful, forever quit going. Look at my meter, dear one. You can do this, but you have to do it for you, not for anybody else. Period... So if you're ready, when you're ready, spend every available moment on this site reading posts, especially old posts. Find some of the oldies, like I did, who speak to your soul, and latch on to them for dear life. Read their stories, and take it all in. If your desire to quit is stronger than your desire to light up, you can make this happen. So ask yourself which is stronger... I would be more worried about my kids and my family dealing with the thought of my dying, or my dying, then I was going through what you will on this journey. Withdrawel, and tough times quitting, will not kill you, smoking will kill you... not a tough choice at all, my friend! Many blessings- Healer [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/5/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 400 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 14,022 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1860 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 52 [B]Hrs:[/B] 9 [B]Mins:[/B] 25 [B]Seconds:[/B] 52
17 years ago 0 517 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Sherri, Attitude is everything. If you're scared of how it will affect other's in your family then I suggest what other's here have suggested. Sit down and let your family know what you are going to be doing for YOU. I know that they will be thrilled with your decision to be a non smoker. I spent two weeks here at this site, reading reading and more reading. I took all kinds of advice, set up a quit diary, put together a whole bunch of snacks (for that hand to mouth habit) and then I set a date and then slapped on a patch! I couldn't do it without the aid of an NRT. This is all about you and what you want. If you want to be a non smoker than go for it girl! There's going to be good days, bad days etc., but that's all part of the process and most of all come here and post to rant, rave, spill your guts.. I was geared to this site by a great friend of mine and she is closing in on 90 days quit. She took what she needed from this site and hasn't looked back. We're all here for you .. now it's up to you to make the next move hon! J xo [IMG]http://i123.photobucket.com/albums/o304/Monica58/thumbsup-1.gif[/IMG] [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 4/4/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 5 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 141 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $51.25 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 15 [B]Mins:[/B] 12 [B]Seconds:[/B] 7
17 years ago 0 115 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Sherri If you look at your quit in a negative way you could become the monster you fear the most. On the other hand if you keep a positive attitude and look at your quit in a positive way it may go much easier than you think. Stay strong. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 1/13/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 86 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 3,463 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $412.8 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 14 [B]Hrs:[/B] 10 [B]Mins:[/B] 35 [B]Seconds:[/B] 3
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Sherri, Welcome, and please take the time to prepare yourself for this journey. We are here for support and knowledge and can really make a difference. Make sure you have a list of relaxation activities to help you push through those rough days. Take some time for yourself everyday and concentrate on keeping quit. The support from your loved ones is amazing so make sure you explain the addiction to them and some of the not so pretty points. We are here for you :) Josie ______________________ The SSC Support Team.
17 years ago 0 1040 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Sherri, what would you be willing to endure from any member of your family... if it meant their lives? Talk to your family. Remind them that you're trying to save your own life, and that it's going to be difficult for you for a while. Come here, read, post often, follow the advise that applies for you... and try to minimize the physical and psychological struggle. That will benefit you and your family. But they need to know and accept that, no matter what, this is going to be very challenging for you... and there will be times when it's OBVIOUSLY challenging for you. Your family will need to be patient and understanding during those times. Good luck! :) [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 3/6/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 34 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 864 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $314.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 15 [B]Mins:[/B] 8 [B]Seconds:[/B] 25
17 years ago 0 1698 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Sherri I think you better include yourself as part of this equation to quite smocking..I,m not going to preach on the consequences of smoking you probable already know them. If I may suggest sit down and tell your husband and children what your intentions are I,m sure they will be behind you 100%. I would also talk to your Doctor he may prescibe some thing to get you through the ugly part of quitting. And last but not least come here often,read the posts there,s alot of support and knowledge to help you quit.
17 years ago 0 7 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Sherri I'm sitting here at day 8 and I had decided to quit a couple days before I actually did. Well I first decided the week before but chickened out. I too was scared. I'm not sure what of, failure probably. I told my family I was gonna quit and for the first few days I didn't want to have to be in charge of anything so if I wanted to I could just go to bed and be by myself. I made it through the first day and was amazed I actually did it, from day every day has been like that, just get to the next time check that you set for yourself, then set the next one and make it there. It could be a day like I do or a couple hours or whatever you want. Start small don't look at forever. Good luck [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 4/1/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 8 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 171 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $40.8 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 21 [B]Mins:[/B] 5 [B]Seconds:[/B] 30
17 years ago 0 1150 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Welcome. My advice is to use whatever help is available to you. Use this site, and nicotine replacement if you want and solicit the support of everyone you see throughout the day. Develop a bag of resources and techniques and get a back up plan and a back up to your back up plan. Fear can be debilitating (sp?). You have made a rational decision to quit. Now just do it by getting through one minute at a time. You will turn around at one point and be astonished at your accomplishment. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 12/29/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 101 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,015 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $505 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 9 [B]Hrs:[/B] 15 [B]Mins:[/B] 15 [B]Seconds:[/B] 14

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