Artist,
I can't offer much help about the patches because I had to go cold turkey due to health reasons. I have had some sadness off and on since my quit and boy, does it ever suck. I've had it over the last several days up until today. The sadness has just come and gone since my quit.
I think a lot of it is my own fault. I actually dodged doing some things. Before my quit I would weed the bluebonnets then sit down and smoke. I'd schedule a lot of work and then take a smoke break. I did stuff like that all day long. Since my quit, I've dodged doing a lot of those things for fear that doing them might trigger me to smoke. So, I wound up not doing a crapping thing but sitting here in my house, feeling sorry for myself, and not learning how to do all of those things without having that cigarette. I should have been doing all of those things and using my coping skills. The longer I dodged doing things, the more fatigued I felt and then depression/sadness would settle in. Once the depression hits, it's even harder to get back up on your feet. Today, I literally forced myself to go to town for 3 hours. I feel really good now.
I know that a fair amount of the sadness is related to our Quit. Danielle's post will help you there and she's helped me to push passed mine.
I know the sadness will pass. Keep posting and reading, okay? Ask any questions you want or need to ask too. Believe me, your posts will help others as well.
Stay Strong,
Tutti
[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B] 2/18/2007
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 55
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,511
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $197.45
[B]Life Gained:[/B]
[B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 21 [B]Mins:[/B] 51 [B]Seconds:[/B] 30