Now now, just calm down everyone!
Tutti, do not go telling people to lay off. If you post something, you need to expect different answers. Everyone offers support in their own way, some are just more tougher than others. I know of noone here with an arrogant, cocky attitude as you mention. Touchy subject this is. It mainly hits close to heart for many. We have, and some still are, going through the exact same thing. But you simply cannot expect people to not put their 2 cents in when it comes to smoking & pregnancy. Stating the obvious, in our own eyes could have possibly helped. It does not matter how much time is under the belt, this is true. However, we will always lead and we will always follow. We will most likely look up and ask for help from those we follow, and we give (and also receive) from those we lead.
DJ, I know how difficult and emotional a quit is. I am quit, and I did it the same way you did. Though our lives are quite different, we both (and everyone else here) just want to remain smoke free. How we get there is up to us. I do hope everything works out for you.
DJ, I know noone here meant to hurt you. Including me. I get real upset when people refer to smoking while pregnant "no big deal". If you truely believe that the only harm to your baby might be just a low birth weight, then go right ahead. But I have a feeling you know better. Whatever your doc says, you ought to trust. I certainly would trust mine. They know your medical history. There is no harm in second opinions, right? And finding 2 doctors with the same answer will be hard to find.
If you read your original post, you will see how opinions will and should differ. Your title "I smoked last night!" could go either way. Either you just smoked one, or a lot. But, when you say you set your quit date to March 10th, that means you gave up on your quit, and went back to smoking. Whether it be 5 cigs, or a pack - you are smoking. I think that is why your posts ended up the way they did. I personally do not know of anyone here that posted to you that would purposely try to hurt you, or demean you. You might, or might not be pregnant, and you smoke. Life goes on, but please don't just disregard what others are saying. We were just trying to get you to not give up on yourself, a