Well, I believe it started out as fear of blushing, and progressed to obsessive thoughts, and then to wondering if the other person was obsessive also, because he said he also had Obessive problems, such as fear of germs, etc. He said he got over his problem by apply the prinicple of love when in a third world country. I had a hard time believing he could cure himself with love for others. But he has the same fear of blushing that I do. I just know it. We are like mirror images in some ways. That's why I started to wonder if our Obsessive problems and Fear of Blushing problems where leading somewhere I did not want to go...like unwanted thoughts...Anybody understand the confusion of feelings?