Hi Maggie:
Personally I am a big fan of the "f" word. It's quick and dirty and if someone is interested in taking me on with words well, hey, if the shoe fits.
Having said that, we are not all alike and some us are more mature than others so for a more calming solution - perhaps this will help you. I am not an expert so this is just an idea - I hope it works for you.
I find cravings are just as much of a friend to me as pain and sorrow is. Cravings remind me from whence I have come and as difficult as they are to deal with I find embracing the crave is much easier than fighting. With peace and understanding there is calming and a quiet serenity allowing you to connect to your breath, your being, your very soul. It is with the breath you identify yourself as a non-smoker, free of chemicals, free to better health and free to a brighter, healthier YOU!
And...having said THAT...please also remember for me, that in your WORST moments one never needs permission to use the "f" word...it is glorious enough that ALL of us are entitled to it. So, use it accordingly because some people are just worthy of hearing it. You should be proud of yourself! Talk about EVERYTHING...especially to people who don't want to listen to you. They will eventually leave you and who needs them anyway? They can go...(you know what)..themselves. This is YOUR POWER right now. Nobody can touch this. Speak to the mountain tops....speak your mind...use your words you have every right to be heard. Quitting smoking is the BRAVEST thing you will ever do in your life! Smoking is easy. Quitting? Not so much!
Be well and congratulations on your wonderful work to healing and your beautiful freedom.
Love and Light
Theresita
[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B] 8/20/2006
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 69
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,247
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $586.5
[B]Life Gained:[/B]
[B]Days:[/B] 6 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 42 [B]Seconds:[/B] 58