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18 years ago 0 772 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Fairy, I am so much further back than you ....... but i would imagine the process would be the same. thing is you probably forget it further down the line. 1. Take control - BREATH Slowly IN OUT... 2. Rememember that tomorrow is another day, just tell yourself that and that you will review it again tomorrow, chances are that tomorrow you will feel better anyway and you will be glad that you didnt smoke. I have no idea what makes us want to smoke. I am just cutting my hedge down, and I so wanted to smoke, as usually that signals breaktime for me. So i had to come up here, switch my machine on, and post instead. REmember that nag, is temporary, dont let it throw you! Tomorrow is another day!
18 years ago 0 73 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Fairy, You stats are inspirational! I pray for the strength to get to where you are now. I feel bad that you're craving so hard, but the fact that you have made it this far is PROOF to the whole world that you are serious about this quit! Keep thinking about all the reasons you quit in the first place. Make a mental list of all the ways your life has improved since you put out that last cancer stick. Please stay strong. You are an inspiration to all newbies like me. We're rooting for you! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/30/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 25 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 389 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $87.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 15 [B]Mins:[/B] 5 [B]Seconds:[/B] 42
18 years ago 0 3368 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hope this article helps you fairy: Think for a moment of your life as a tightly woven piece of fabric. Each thread represents the events and experiences you�ve had. And running alongside all of the many "life" threads are threads of a finer gauge. So fine in fact, they�re impossible to see with the naked eye. Those threads are your smoking habit, and they�ve become so interwoven in the fabric of your life, you find you can�t do anything without thinking about how smoking will fit into it. The associations that we build up over a lifetime between the activities in our lives and smoking are very closely knit. Once you quit smoking, your job becomes one of unraveling those smoking threads, or associations, one by one. How does that happen? And how long does it take? Practice Makes Perfect Recovery from this addiction is a process of gradual release over time. Every smoke free day you complete is teaching you how to live your life without cigarettes. Bit by bit, you�re reprogramming your responses to the daily events that trigger the urge to smoke. The more practice you get, the less urges will plague you. Over the course of your first smoke free year, you'll encounter most of the events and situations in your daily life that you associate with smoking. Some smoking triggers are seasonal in nature and can create strong urges to smoke months into your quit. For instance, if you quit smoking during the winter and you're an avid gardener, you could find yourself craving a smoke break the first time you're out digging in the dirt the following Spring. It may hit you with an intensity you haven't felt in months. Don't worry! Once you make your way through the trigger smoke free, you'll move on with ease. The first year is all about firsts...experiencing the many daily events in your life smoke free for the first time. And, it's all about practice. You built your smoking habit through years of practice. Now, build the nonsmoking you the same way. Practice is a necessary part of recovery, so try to relax and let time help you. The more of it you put between yourself and that last cigarette you smoked, the stronger you�ll become. It�s All In The Attitude With that said, there�s another step in finding permanent freedom from this addiction that is j
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18 years ago 0 5009 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Fairy and congrats on your quit! Our quit dates are just 2 days apart. Were you doing anything different than usual? Was anyhing going on that might have triggered thoughts or memories of smoking? I have these from time to time, but I try to accept them for what they are and move on. I was talking to a 'wise old man' yesterday who said 'Mr Ed, you've been quit for 130 days. YOU'VE DONE IT! It's your choice as to whether you want to go back to smoking now' I think I have already made my choice. Please try to accept that we will all probably experience memory triggers from time to time, but accept them for that. I know how much better 130 days feels compared to say, 30, and I believe others here who tell me that 365 days is that much better still! Hope you are feeling better.. Mr Ed :) [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 2/13/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 131 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 3,936 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �982.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 21 [B]Hrs:[/B] 21 [B]Mins:[/B] 2 [B]Seconds:[/B] 41
18 years ago 0 506 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Fairy- it will be ok. You know what to do now when one of these hits now, which is a blessing versus earlier on in the quit. This addiction is a lot more complex than we would like, I think, and it's times like this that prove that. But, at least we know that it will pass. Don't smoke; be prepared, be vigilant. Whatever it takes ;) [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 2/18/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 126 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 5,062 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1134 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 20 [B]Hrs:[/B] 19 [B]Mins:[/B] 3 [B]Seconds:[/B] 42
18 years ago 0 25 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Well, I don't know why but *$#!* I want a smoke! This is awful. I have no idea why. I never ever want to have to go through quitting again so I know I don't want to start again. Especially when I have made it so far. Has anyone else had awful cravings this far into it? My neighbor even said "I won't give you one of mine, you have been quit for too long" I didn't ask her for one. I just told her it has been real hard lately. I did think about it though :( Thanks for listening. Serena [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 2/11/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 133 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,996 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $532 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 9 [B]Hrs:[/B] 11 [B]Mins:[/B] 18 [B]Seconds:[/B] 12
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Thanks so much you guys. You all are so wonderful. In all my life I get the very best answers/advice here! Thanks for bringing me back to where I belong...Reality. Yes, the cravings were oh so hard and I will say that my husband and I did try a puff late Saturday night while camping. I was so afraid that I would like it, Fortunatley it was awful, so awful I can't believe I ever did like it. Yes! So in a lot of ways that helped me. I don't think it was a "good choice" but it worked for me. Strangly enough I WOULD NOT reccomend it to anyone. I feel relieved now. It is so wonderful on this site that you can share so much. Sometimes I feel "guilty" about having cravings, but here we are all normal. Anyways I wish all of you the best of luck. Thanks for everything. ~Serena~ [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 2/11/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 144 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,171 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $576 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 10 [B]Hrs:[/B] 7 [B]Mins:[/B] 13 [B]Seconds:[/B] 42
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Fairy....I looked at your meter and instantly said YES! Day 134 for me. I was at work and the cravings were driving me insane. If I remember correctly, they kind of came from no where. I couldn't take it. I went into my bosses office and said "I have to go" He looked at me like I was insane. I said "Call it Vacation, call it sick leave, call it whatever you want but I have to go and I have to go NOW" and I left. I was going insane. I came here and I posted right before I left and then went home and read the replies. You are not alone. I remember that day well. Hang on tight and it will pass. Read, read and read. Post all you need to. People are here to help. Get out the coping tools you used in the beginning, peppermint, ice water, deep breaths, gum.. whatever worked for you then will work for you now. If all fails, go back to bed. Just knonw that it will pass. DO NOT GIVE IN! That is the worse thing you could do. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 7/1/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 358 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 7,167 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1253 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 31 [B]Hrs:[/B] 13 [B]Mins:[/B] 58 [B]Seconds:[/B] 26
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Oh fairy, hang on. It will go away. Alot of quitters here talk about getting some strong cravings around 100 + days into their quits. It is the nicodevils last attack before you stomp him to death! Hang tough. Don't you dare smoke. It will not make you feel better. It will make you feel worse for blowing such a LONG, FANTASTIC quit. All of us newbies wish we were where you are. You can do it. You will feel better. The craving will go away whether you smoke or not! Congratulations on 4 + months of freedom! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/25/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 30 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 812 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $112.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 3 [B]Hrs:[/B] 22 [B]Mins:[/B] 25 [B]Seconds:[/B] 53
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What's up fairy? Are you feeling better? [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/25/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 31 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 840 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $116.25 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 4 [B]Hrs:[/B] 1 [B]Mins:[/B] 45 [B]Seconds:[/B] 8
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