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Dear members, There are no face to face support groups where I live. Iknow I am going to need some encouragement and support from people who have quit successfully to get through this.As I read the posts from some of you who have quit, others who have relasped, I keep wondering if I am going to be able to do this! Right now I am scared of failure, and don't know if I have the inner strength to conquer this addiction. But when I read your posts I feel positive. Tomorrow is day 1 for me. I look forward to hearing from you guys. Maria
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Dear Phil, You were the only person who replied to my joining your group and I want to Thank You for taking the time and making the commitment to cheer me on. Thanks,
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Dear Friends, By the time I finished all of your replies to my first post, all of you felt like friends... dear ones at that, willing to take the time to reassure me that I can do this. THANK YOU and GOD Bless all of you for your kind words and wishes. I CAN do this.... Talk to you soon. Maria
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Hey Maria - Just want to let you know that this isn't your private nightmare. We can all relate. We're all in the same boat, and we'll all get through this together. Beyond people's encouragement and supportive comments, I've found comfort in knowing that other people (like yourself) are scared of quitting. I just keep reminding myself that it's the cigarettes that create the fear, the cigarettes feed the fear. I wish bravery for you (and myself too...). We're all in this together. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 9/3/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 1 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 32 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $8 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 2 [B]Mins:[/B] 46 [B]Seconds:[/B] 8
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Maria? How is it going? I know you have not smoked cos I would smell it! Luv Phil xx
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Sorry Maria The phone rang and I had to log out befopre I had finished ranting on! PLEASE use the board on a day by day basis and let us know how its going you will be AMAZED at the support that is out here from all over the wotld and I suspect that like me if you waiver you will feel that you are letting everyone down not just yourself People like Princess and Cuddles have been such a support to me !! Keep going....... Phil x
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Hi Maria You can do it!!!! I am on day 27(ish) (starting to lose count) DO use NRT the patches worked for me. DO stay positive!!! DO NOT give up giving up!! I smoked for 50 years and have stopped so you can do it. Of course you are strong enough women are much stromnger than us Luv from England Keep posting Phil x
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Hi Maria So I was not the only one to respond!! Are they not a great bunch of people. I hav been totallyoverwhelmed by the support pouring in. Just remember they will ALL come and get you if you smoke including me and I cant afford the fare from England so you will have to stay smoke free!!! Love Phil xx
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Do not dwell on the failure its the trying that counts! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 8/17/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 19 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 385 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �104.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 7 [B]Mins:[/B] 41 [B]Seconds:[/B] 11
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Hi Maria, I only get around once in a day or two so missed your post. I hope your day is going well? Probably still a mixture of fear but now coupled with exhilaration - because you are now DOING your quit! I am a little further down the road - but not much. My quit has been quite strange. Such a weird mixture of feeling not many problems at all (other than thinking "I have given up" all the time. LOL) and sudden sweeps of........ something. Couldn't really call them cravings because it's not been that I've suddenly wanted a cig. Just that I get swamped by these feelings of discomfort. I guess partly of missing something. Well, if you smoked over 30 a day and were a smoker for over 20 years, you're going to miss something - aren't you? Those times, cravings if you like, I've taken time out and done some deep breathing. And sometimes sucked like mad on a dummy cig. And waited for them to pass. I've likened them in my head to contractions though not as painful, more like in the way you just have to ride them out. It comes on, it peaks, you breathe through it and it gets less and less until it ebbs away. The severity lessens each time you get through it. And the more you do, the more practiced you become at thinking "it will be over in a couple of minutes". And off you go again. had a few killer ones towards the end of week one. Had a day in week 2 when the blues kicked in. Doing pretty well now! Keep busy. Find a means of relaxation and "me" time. You are after all, giving up quite a lot of "me" time in leaving the cigs behind. I have taken up a yoga class and have a new MP3 player (from the saved money!) becaues music works as a mood enhancer for me. Get your own rewards in place. And good luck. Look forward to reading more. S [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 8/20/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 16 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 567 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �96 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 14 [B]Mins:[/B] 56 [B]Seconds:[/B] 15

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