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18 years ago 0 1450 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi again X-Smoker, To answer your question up there: No I didn't use the patches but I know several members that did and found them to be very helpful. I see that you have asked the other question on another thread so I'll leave that alone. :) By all means do begin exercising if it's okay with your doctor. You will not want to smoke when your heart is pounding and you are breathing heavy from a good workout. It's nice to see other members finding a break from the 'smoke thoughts' at various stages of their quits. "We must always remember that we are unique, just like everyone else" :confuse: ;p After re-reading this thread I suspect some members may feel I am too quick to say "I know I won't smoke again." I would simple ask anyone (who might feel that way) to please try and understand that [i]saying so[/i] doesn�t make me smug, cocky or complacent. It�s how I feel. It�s what I know to be true. Because for me personally, at this stage I can�t �slip.� The coping mechanisms that worked to get me this far CAN always keep me quit unless I make a deliberate effort not to use them. Thank for letting me clarify myself on your thread X-Smoker. I think you should counter all the negative self-talk in your head with positive mantras and pledges and positive reasons not to smoke. Keep telling yourself you are healing. Because YOU ARE! :) It IS growing pains. You are in hell week so it's normal to feel like you are riding an emotional rollercoaster. You may crack up one minute and cry the next. At least you are no longer pumping poison into your lungs AND the withdrawal will pass. Keep the faith, buckle up and just go with it. ;) The best is yet to come. [color=blue][font=Tahoma]All the best~[/color] [img]http://img291.imageshack.us/img291/6922/n3us.gif[/img][size=3][color=blue]2[/color][/size][img]http://img133.imageshack.us/img133/2344/k6ob.gif[/img][/color] [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 8/20/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 272 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 5,984 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1360 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 25 [B]Hrs:[/B] 19 [B]Mins:[/B] 38 [B]Seconds:[/B] 2
18 years ago 0 1450 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Oh you are welcome. Glad to help. Well hmmm..I remember my first month was tough. After I began to exercise it got much better though. Sometime after 100 days it started to feel more normal for me. After three months I began feeling really good and by 6 months I knew I would never smoke again. The desire was no longer the same. It is wonderful to be free of my self-imposed smoker's hell X-smoker. Thank you for the congrats and the same to you! 5 days is HUGE! Stay strong! I know it's tough at first but ya know..we sort of need the struggle to appreciate the success when it arrives. :) Think of it as 'healing' because that is exactly what it is. [color=blue][font=Tahoma]All the best~[/color] [img]http://img291.imageshack.us/img291/6922/n3us.gif[/img][size=3][color=blue]2[/color][/size][img]http://img133.imageshack.us/img133/2344/k6ob.gif[/img][/color] [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 8/20/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 271 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 5,963 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1355 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 25 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 24 [B]Seconds:[/B] 3
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Good evening X-Smoker, Speaking from personal experience: Absolutely it gets farther apart. Eventually you will experience entire days when you don't think of smoking at all. I was sitting here trying to remember the last time I had a 'smoke thought' (I say 'thought' because they are no longer craves or urges for me) I am not sure when it was!?! Now that is a great feeling :) Now, I do think about the "topic of smoking" when I'm in here at the SSC but I am no longer 'haunted by the constant nag' nor do I feel 'a void' anymore. There IS a big light at the end of the tunnel. Do what ever it takes to distract yourself. Funny story: I once walked backwards to get beyond a particularly tough stress crave. Crazy I know. Nevertheless, I found walking backwards to require a 'new kind' of concentration for me. Exercise is another really effective crave/urge/thought buster AND when all else fails~EAT something! ;) It always works for a while (ideally something healthy of course :)) Hang tough. [color=blue][font=Tahoma]All the best~[/color] [img]http://img291.imageshack.us/img291/6922/n3us.gif[/img][size=3][color=blue]2[/color][/size][img]http://img133.imageshack.us/img133/2344/k6ob.gif[/img][/color] [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 8/20/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 271 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 5,962 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1355 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 25 [B]Hrs:[/B] 17 [B]Mins:[/B] 20 [B]Seconds:[/B] 12
18 years ago 0 12049 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
X, There is a light and it will get stronger! Using avoidance and distraction can help you get rid of those pesky voices! You can do this and 5 days is a great start :) Keep Strong, Josie _____________________ The SSC Support Team.

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