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author, I'm so glad you came here and posted... anytime you're worried about losing your quit, you're in the right place right here! If you feel that hypnosis will help you, then go for it. I've heard some say it helped and others say it was a waste of money... I think it depends on how much you want the quit. There's nothing that will quit FOR you... YOU have to do the work... but things like hypnosis and NRT CAN help and it's worth a shot if you're scared that you're going to lose your quit. The only way to stay quit is N.O.P.E. - Not One Puff Ever. If you do that, then you'll never relapse. :) Crave the Quit! Butterfly [IMG]http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c177/kissnflirt/littlebutterflies.gif[/IMG] [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 10/28/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 105 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,648 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $346.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 7 [B]Hrs:[/B] 16 [B]Mins:[/B] 29 [B]Seconds:[/B] 42
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Author1, What does your son think that you are going to get yourself into that you can't get out of? Self hypnosis involves deep relaxation. Not a coma. You don't become unconcious. It is a way of talking to yourself while you are relaxed to provide positive, constructive images in your thoughts to help you during moments of stress or dificult situations. Since you control what thoughts you are concentrating on, there is no concern that you can be made to do something you don't agree with (as if anyone could) Using self hypnosis is a great idea to help you relax. ANd to focus on a problem or area of concern. Try it! It takes practice to reach the required relaxation level. So don't get upset if you don't succeed right away. And your son doesn't have to know if you don't want him to. It doesn't leave a mark on you. LOL! As Missyfit explained, this is the part of your journey that takes place in your mind. The physical withdrawl is over, and the mental part of the battle is engaged. You need to take every thought under subjection. Retrain your mind. When it says, I need a smoke, you need to correct it. ( You no longer smoke, that is not an option. You are learning to live healthier, you are {stressed, hungry, lonely, angry, tired} name whatever it is and then deal with that. Banish the cig image as soon as it appears, and again any time it returns. eventually the message gets across. Just like with Kids. You are doing great. Keep on keeping on. Cheryl [font=georgia][size=4][color=navy]No Joking, I'm Still Not Smoking! [/font][/size][/color] [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 7/4/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 222 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 5,328 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $632.7 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 29 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 44 [B]Seconds:[/B] 35
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Hi, Author1. You've already gotten a lot of good advice and comments. Not much I can add to what's already here. But I do have a question. Do you happen to live in an area with high air pollution? Thanks. Hope the self-hypnosis works. :) Shevie [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/23/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 264 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 5,281 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1003.2 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 49 [B]Hrs:[/B] 5 [B]Mins:[/B] 24 [B]Seconds:[/B] 14
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I think you've got a lot of great feedback so far, and I can only underscore what they have to say. A word of warning to others who are reading this thread, and I know this has been around before. When you originally want to quit, you have your full soul and mind behind it... that's why the first day is not so hard. Then the second, third, and fourth days, you start to feel the chemical withdrawal symptoms... those are tough. But if you have the mental fortitude, you can get through those. Then, in my case at least, about the fourth week, I started to want to give in. I missed the fellowship with the smokers at work, a purely behavioral point. By 40 days, you've kicked pretty much every last trace of a physical addiction to nicotine (and the various other chemicals.) It's all psychological. I really had to recommit to my quit... I had gotten through the tough part of the physical withdrawal, and I was not about to give in to the mental part and have to do it all over again. After a few months, you will feel absolutely fantastic!! You literally feel like you can tackle the world!! In the meantime, keep coming back to these message boards. I would always read them when I had my low moments, and after ten minutes reading the boards, I would reconfirm why I had quit in the first place. Good luck to you all. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 2/9/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 367 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 12,482 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $2202 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 39 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 33 [B]Seconds:[/B] 53
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Hi author, I don't think hypnosis would be harmful and why not if you feel it could help you? I know how tiring it can be to fight this addiction so I feel for you. At 40 days you're still thinking of smoking...not as much as in the beginning...but often. Sometimes as those thoughts flit through our minds, they get stuck between our ears. Make sure you're not dwelling on them. Don't give smoking thoughts your valuable time. It's like playing with fire. This is the stage where the art of distraction comes into play...a period of retraining our brains, even though we're tired. Have you tried the book by Alan Carr, The Easy Way to Quit Smoking? Maybe this would help renew your efforts. Keep fighting...it won't be long before you realize you've gone hours without thinking of smoking. I promise it gets better :) [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 2/2/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 373 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 7,478 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1331.61 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 39 [B]Hrs:[/B] 14 [B]Mins:[/B] 14 [B]Seconds:[/B] 16
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Author, I think self hypnosis sounds like a good idea. Like Cheryl says, it is more a way of focusing your 'self-talk' and telling your brain that you really want to do this. You also have to accept that for a few weeks, you will have good days and bad days. Sometimes you may have several bad days strung together. It is a bit like climbing a hill...some steep bits, some not so steep bits. But you will get through this, and whilst you are still 'climbing', stop and admire the view...give yourself a reward, congratulate yourself on how far you have come. Any thoughts on slipping, you need to get back here IMMEDIATELY. I promise it starts to get easier soon. Lizzie :) [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 4/23/2003 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 1027 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 15,411 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �4621.5 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 99 [B]Hrs:[/B] 23 [B]Mins:[/B] 9 [B]Seconds:[/B] 22
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