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14 years ago 0 82 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Lori
 
 I see one your hobbies is Drag Racing,I love drag racing! I know how you feel you can get some good advice here.Hang in their!
14 years ago 0 955 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Lori,
 
Setting goals can be tough and at times, overwhelming.
 
As Ashley has mentioned previously, making S.M.A.R.T. goals is an easy way to organize yourself and your own activities.
 
Before you set out actual goals, what is it about your own life that you would like to change? Can you identify areas of your life where you would like to see improvements? Perhaps it would help to first think about more long-term changes and then break these down into small and achievable goals. Sometimes setting goals requires some energy and a positive attitude however at other times, the thought of making some beneficial changes in your life will make you feel better and more motivated.
 
Just a reminder S.M.A.R.T. goals stand for
Specific
Measurable
Realistic
and
Time-stamped (this means setting time-dependent goals)
 
Perhaps it would help if you shared some ideas of goals you may have for yourself? Health Educators or other members would be more than happy to give you some feedback and help work with you to achieve these goals!
 
Let us know how things go for you Lori!
 
 
Sarah, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 6 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi,
I'm having troubles setting goals & activities. All I want to do is nothing. I have no energy and I'm very sad.
Help!
Lori
14 years ago 0 11214 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Thats what we are here for.  It is easy to get overwhelmed.  Making goals should help you to set priorities and feel accomplished. 
 
Let us know how it goes!
 
 
Ashley, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 6 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
thank you that was good advice.
 
i think i was just overwhelmed and felt like i had to finish all my goals in a week.
 
i will definitely space them out now.
 
thank you
 
14 years ago 0 11214 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi danifantatic,
 
Interesting question.  The important things about goals is they have to be S.M.A.R.T.  which means Specific, Measurable, Realistic and Time stamped.  Also, when you are first starting out the more achievable the goal is the better.  Start simple.  Once you build up your confidence and motivation you can move on to more difficult goals.  Ok so lets examine your goals: 
 
  • to change my sleep patterns
  • to go the gym at least once a week
  • to finish reading my book
  • Ok so these are great goals but to help motivate you a little more lets tweak them.  You first goal is great but it can be more specific.  It also is not time stamped of measurable.  So lets think about what we can change it to.  How can you change your sleep patterns?  You could get up earlier in the morning, you could meditate before bed, you could exercise during the day?  What you need to do is find something you would like to work on to achieve the overall goal of changing your sleep patterns.   An example of a new goal is: Get up an hour earlier then normal every day this week.  Or meditate for 15 minutes every evening this week.  Remember to start they can be very small goals.  They can be simple steps to achieving a larger goal.
     
    Ok now your next goal.  This is a very good goal.  Its time stamped, measurable, it has all the qualities of a SMART goal but if you have never started going to the gym it may be a little over whelming.  Perhaps try going for a walk three times a week or doing sit ups at home three times a week.  Something a little more achievable.
     
    Finally, your last goal, to finish reading your book.  I especially like this one.  But it needs to be time stamped.  Perhaps instead of simply finishing your book you could make your goal read for 30 minutes four times a week. 
     
    Be sure to make the goals suited to what you want.  Let us know the new goals you decide upon!
     
    Looking forward to hearing back from you.
     
    Members, any advice? What are your goals and how do you take steps to achieve them?
     
     
    Ashley, Health Educator
    14 years ago 0 6 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
    hi
     
    i'm having a bit of trouble, i've set my goals but i am still having trouble getting the motivation to actually do them. is this because the goals i have set are to hard? or that i am still not well enough to do them?
     
    xx


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