Hi All,
Thank you for your comments. I wish I had better news tonight.
The rest of my day went pretty well and my training session was beneficial. It's too bad I don't have the extra money to have a personal trainer all the time. Oh well.
My husband was actually better to me yesterday and he made contact with me during the day without me doing so first. I was ecstatic! It made me feel so much better! However I should know by now that anytime my hopes get up it's time to be knocked down.
When I left work tonight I found out that my tire was flat so I pulled back into a parking space and saw the problem. I had been about to call my husband so I went ahead and did so. Since I've never had to change a tire myself before I asked him if he would talk me through it and he said no he'd just come to the office. Since it would take some time for him to get there and I did not want to make him spend is evening dealing with the problem I went ahead and changed it to the spare. I know I didn't do it exactly right but it was close enough and the tire was on. I called him to let him know and was treated like I was stupid again. I said I'd drive home on the spare and was told I couldn't just come home that the tire needed to be repaired. He said he was on his way and would take care of it when he got there. I felt crushed! The Fed Ex driver stopped to see if he could help but I had finished. He was impressed with my work!. When my husband got there he looked skeptically at the tire and said he didn't need to check it if the Fed Ex guy did. He treated me in a callous way and gave me many reasons why I should have waited until he got there. I told him I didn't want to be an invalid. He decided he was taking my car and the tire to the tire shop and I would take his car home. He had mentioned that he had spilled an old tool box in our driveway and thought that the tire was punctures by some of the debris.
I drove home numb and when I got home checked my phone and noticed I had missed his call - unsure how but that's a bad thing b/c he thinks I do it on purpose. ( I don't - I have to have the phone on vibrate at work and now that my clothes are looser I don't always feel it) Anyway, the first thing he said was he hoped I didn't park in our driveway - I did! He says he told me not to but I didn't hear him. Possibly I was already numb from the treatment when he came to "help"
The tire shop is closed so I will have to deal with it tomorrow anyway.
I have not seen him since, if he's home he is outside, it's been about 2 hours since I got home. I'm angry, I'm hurt and I don't understand the treatment I'm getting.
Sorry I'm complaining again!!
