Not doing so well right now. My husband and I have had a few discussions since. We seem to be at an impass. I am tired of taking all the blame for our problems. I feel punished and there's nothing I can do to make up for it or move on. I feel like my husband is bitter towards me for things beyond my control. I'm not getting any breaks and don't feel consideration on most occasions.
I sent him a text message saying that after the gym last night that I wasn't going home to an empty house so I was going somewhere to pass the time - he was going to his gym and then back to work to finish a project he's been working on.
He sent me a text saying the he's come home many times to an empty house when I worked late and if I didn't believe where he was to call him at work.
I am fed up with these responses! First off, he came home to our son, but our son is spending time with his grandmother so it truly is an empty house. Secondly, it seemed to me that he had to be late when he knew I wouldn't be and came home early when he knew I wouldn't be. When I read his text I realized that this is punishment.
My text explained the house is empty - no son. That I'm tired of being punished for things he didn't like - I GET IT. I've been trying to change things but nothing is good enough. That I didn't need to call him - all I asked was that he tell me when he is finished and I'd head home. I told him I did not want to fight, loved him but sad.
He called later, did not really address anything head on, just said when he expected to be home and wasn't confrontational. He said he decided to stay so he could finish. All I said was ok.
I can't bring myself to put out alot of effort right now I've said everything I can and feel very hurt
