Hi Jane,
I also do not post too much, as I also do not know where to begin with what I want to say... whatever .. I am a kind of expert on Paxil.. well, I have been taking it for a bit more than a year. Yes, your other doctor was right, it takes at least 2 weeks to feel any differences. In my case it took actually 3 weeks, but then, like a miracle, everything looked brighter, sensible and clear and I felt somehow being "normal" only after 3 weeks - however, this can be differ from person to person...
After some weeks/months nobody could have said about me I had depression! Unfortunately, it also had disadvantages, I also gained on weight - 12 kgs.
In general, it takes 2-3 weeks when an SSRI shows signs of efficacy - I have learned a lot about SSRIs and SNRIs and any other types of the dep meds during the time I was taking Paxil.
Let me know, if you have any other questions, maybe I can say something about my experiences you are interested in.
take care