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11 years ago 0 2606 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hello hugs4u, 

Change is definitely not an easy thing, and it can require time. I hope the CBT program we offer here has been able to help you learn how to make changes to better your quality of life. 

Wishing you all the best this weekend, 


Samantha, Health Educator
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It cost me a lot more than just money for my piece of paradise, but I think it was worth it now. 

You can travel the world looking for happiness and you will find a lot of beauty, but happiness is a little spark in your soul waiting to grow. Happiness is in you, it can grow anywhere. It just needs you to help it along. 

Lunch is over, Sun is shining, time to get something done.

Davit
11 years ago 0 4027 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Davit,
 
Change is difficult, and I'm going to have to make difficult ones, so my stress level is skyrocketing.  Wish I had some quiet since the neighbour's construction noise has me and the house vibrating, which probably doesn't help sleeping.
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Hugs

"better the devil you know than the one you don't" is probably the biggest reason people can't change.

Entering a world of temporary fear to get rid of one of permanent fear doesn't seem very logical especially to the already confused mind.

"if you don't know what to do, just do something" What better place to do something than here.

Davit


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Davit,
I'm only starting to understand the meaning of "they devil you know is better than devil you don't"...
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Most definitely, every coin has two sides.

Some of the information I have though positive and valuable has a negative side or association. I look at this negative side to recognize it then drop it because I'm only interested in what the positive side can do for me, but still I want to know what the negative side can do to me. Know thy enemy.

Davit
11 years ago 0 4027 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
As I learn about things, sometimes I feel I undermine myself by using it against myself.  An example is the home, and how I start to see more things to do.
 
I suppose those things undermining me are just the core beliefs which are beginning to change?
 
Does anybody find that "knowledge" somehow backfires?

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