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I slipped today. I am so mad at myself


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Mary, Also be sure to work the Emergency coping plan exercise located in your glove compartment. Danielle, Bilingual Support Specialist
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Mary, arm yourself!! Anytime you go to war you need be ready. Get some cold water, mints, gum, jelly bellies, fruit, whatever sounds good and is healthy. Look at exercise, reward yourself, those early quit days are so hard fought, that the rewards are sweet and really help mentally. Mary you are worth this, right? Sue [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]5/3/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 205 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,050 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $358.75 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 19 [B]Hrs:[/B] 12 [B]Mins:[/B] 46 [B]Seconds:[/B] 10
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Thank you Ladies so much. I know what you are saying about dealing with things as a non smoker. Just cause you quit doesn't mean the stress goes with it. I will do my best to come here first next time. Thank's so much Mary [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]11/15/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 9 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 414 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $62.10 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 4 [B]Mins:[/B] 24 [B]Seconds:[/B] 13
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Hi Mary, I agree with Unhooked and Anna. You're not serving any purpose by beating yourself up. You're okay. Just don't smoke anymore. :) And...like Unhooked said, please let us know if you need help before you give in again, k? :) [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]8/25/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 91 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,730 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $532.35 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 8 [B]Hrs:[/B] 3 [B]Mins:[/B] 45 [B]Seconds:[/B] 8
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Mary, be easy on yourself. Decide if you want to quit or continue to smoke and move on. (((hug))) [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]1/8/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 320 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 4,800 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1,344.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 29 [B]Hrs:[/B] 15 [B]Mins:[/B] 34 [B]Seconds:[/B] 1
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Mary, being mad at yourself won't change anything or accomplish anything, so stop that. Do you want to be quit, mary? That's the really important question you have to answer for yourself. Because if you do, you learn from this slip that family pressures are a bad trigger for you. And then you make a commitment to deal with those pressures without smoking. Can you think of a time in your life when smoking actually affected the outcome of any problem or stressful event? I can't. You know you didn't just "find" your husband's smokes, you went looking. Promise yourself if you want to do that again, you will come here first, post for help, and wait for 5 replies before you go looking. Promise. A slip is not the end of the world, & it doesn't have to be the end of your quit. Lots of us have slipped, I have, and we have found that we can turn it into a positive thing by learning from it & getting right back up on the wagon & going forward. Take my hand, mary, shout "woohoo!", hold on tight to the wagon rail with your other hand & you can't light up now. You can do it, you did it for 8 days. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]5/13/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 195 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 3,900 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $2,145.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 19 [B]Hrs:[/B] 12 [B]Mins:[/B] 0 [B]Seconds:[/B] 52
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Hi Everyone. I have had a bad couple of days. I have 2 grown daughters. Both of them the last 2 days have been calling me like crazy with every problem then can think of. My husband still smokes but had the cigs hid. I found them and smoke a couple. Ever sense then i have been trying to fight of the eagers. They know i am trying to quit. I know being there Mom i should try to help. I guessi am so mixed up right now. I am taking Chantix. i am on like my third wk. I really don't feel its helping that much. I Could use some advice please Thank's Mary [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]11/15/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 8 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 368 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $55.20 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 2 [B]Mins:[/B] 19 [B]Seconds:[/B] 37

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