help! I am hoping I am not the only one. okay here goes the confession.....
To begin with I have been depressed for what feels like weeks and weeks. I know it is the whole addiction thing.... I know that part is normal to some degree. I mean smoking for 20 years and then letting it go.....it's like a relationship, some part of yourself that has always been there, It takes a while to adjust on so many levels.
My boyfriend went over to his friends house last night...(nothing out of the ordinary) I never want to go....(sitting around with a bunch of guys drinking beer and either watching some sport or participating in one, plus we have a little one.) But I think I felt sorry for myself last night. and honestly I haven't exactly been liking our relationship lately. We don't do anything, go anywhere..... and truth be told we are having some major money problems, so lately it has been a struggle to keep the lights on and food in the fridge, get the daycare paid for the little one, etc.) But still we don't ever talk...hang out with each other, and our sex life sucks! I think we are intimate like once or twice a month...(I am so happy this website is anonymous) Anyway I think I am some what angry with him....I feel neglected. So my girlfriend calls who I have not spoken with in a while.....I was totally happy to talk to her, and I started to make myself a drink...well we were on the phone for a couple of hours....and several drinks later....I did the unspeakable... I smoked a butt out of the ashtray from outside. (my boyfriend still smokes) I mean first of all....a butt?! gross! what am I? back in high school, or middle school again? Needless to say my head is pounding today and I physically feel horrible....and now in addition to my almost unrelenting mild depression....I feel horrible for what I did and stupid! God I feel stupid! And I'm really hoping this does not mean I start over...like I am not on day one now...am I? I don't want to go back to smoking.... I want to see all of this through....cause I know that my depression and all my other problems are not forever. okay I confessed. help :(
[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B] 2/6/2007
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 95
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,908
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $389.5
[B]Life Gained:[/