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17 years ago 0 2670 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
cheermom, take a deep breath. I too am on antidepressants, so i sympathise with how you are feeling How about going for a walk, or to the beauty salon, Do something nice for yourself aslong as it doesn't involve nick o demon hugs of support lynnexx [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 10/24/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 17 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 262 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �68 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 1 [B]Hrs:[/B] 23 [B]Mins:[/B] 6 [B]Seconds:[/B] 34
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17 years ago 0 2631 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Cheer - I'm always the last one posting. Just wanted to say that I'm sorry you're going through a rough phase. It sounds like holidays may be a rough time for you for many years (Our bodies/minds seem to remember to grieve even when we think that we are okay) Anyway, take care....Hope all goes well for you. Windy [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 9/11/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 60 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,217 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $300 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 37 [B]Seconds:[/B] 39
17 years ago 0 2838 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I'm doing the Thanksgiving thing also. Mine and my husbands first as an ex-smoker! He has two brothers and a sister-in-law that smoke as well as our older children. Everybody's used to smoking at our house. NOT THIS YEAR! I do it every year because we live in the same town with both of our elderly mothers (not the same house :gasp: God forbid!) It's easier on them. I have put my foot down with EVERYONE about smoking here. There is a smoking area on the front porch or by the pool and butts from the can must be emptied by the smokers before they leave. ;) I'm having a bit of a down day as well...been on JUST the Chantix for going on 2 days now and just kinda...blah! Plus today is a holiday- Veterans Day-so without work I have a lot of down time. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 9/8/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 63 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 3,173 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $504 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 6 [B]Hrs:[/B] 12 [B]Mins:[/B] 43 [B]Seconds:[/B] 32
17 years ago 0 3307 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hey, you didn't say anything about you being in the dumps. I am sorry to hear this. But you know what? I only about 10 hours away, so don't do anything stupid or I will come and find you :-) (the emtions things are not working) {{{HUGS}}} [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 11/7/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 3 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 38 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $9 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 12 [B]Mins:[/B] 8 [B]Seconds:[/B] 26
17 years ago 0 3307 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Now that we understand one another, you have a great week-end. Try a walk ;p, it does wonders for moods. LOL!!! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 11/7/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 3 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 38 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $9 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 12 [B]Mins:[/B] 10 [B]Seconds:[/B] 26
17 years ago 0 607 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Rusty...No one smokes in my house lol. Wont have it since my youngest who is 6 has been in and out of hospitals because he is allergic to smoke (hope my house doesn't burn with him in it and me cooking). So Thanksgiving is a little stressful but since I haven't hosted it in over 5 years (my sister and I used to alternate) I offered. I am hoping it snows like the dickens on Thanksgiving as they all have to smoke outside :eg: and that would make my day. Ladybugg, I do need to get out more but am at work right now. I am actually doing something tomorrow that thrills me just not sure i'm excited about it anymore. I am trying some new recipes and bought the stuff yesterday. I'm finding I can attempt to cook and it may actually be good. I guess I seem to have troubles more on the weekend because I am still in the accepting and still not 100% sure of my quit when around a smoker. I will be honest in that aspect, its hard to ditch a husband that wont go away (just kidding) and a quitter is supposed to avoid those situations if need be. Thanks though [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 6/7/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 156 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 3,911 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $631.8 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 13 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 56 [B]Seconds:[/B] 3
17 years ago 0 607 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Life has been great. So why am I down? Why after last weekend being an eye opener and I finally feel like a non-smoker? Who knows. All I know is deep inside I feel blah, down, depressed, whatever you want to call it. Just had a 5 month reward (made my husband sit through a movie I picked), looking forward to my 6 month reward Dec 7th (oh and its huge!!!) but this just wont go away. I am already on antidepressants so that wont do anything. Maybe its the weekend blues (the challenge of conquering the weekend with a smoking husband). Maybe its the upcoming Thanksgiving when my entire family comes over for the day and they ALL smoke (even my dad gave up on his quit). I just need something funny to read. Read all the recent threads/posts that are funny or uplifting but nothing is helping. I helped a couple people here get through a rough spot yesterday. Maybe I spent all my energy helping others. Maybe its because I wanted to help Jan so bad but she succumbed to smoking agian. Who knows. Just need something. Or maybe I'm venting. But I've already made my weekend promise so rest-assured I will NOT smoke during the next 3 days. One day at a time, or in my case, 1 minute Kim [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 6/7/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 156 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 3,910 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $631.8 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 13 [B]Hrs:[/B] 18 [B]Mins:[/B] 54 [B]Seconds:[/B] 42
17 years ago 0 607 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Thanks for the responses. Yes, it will be tough until the New Year and yes, I do want to keep my quit. Just smoking was my crutch for the past 15 years in dealing with the holidays on when my only brother was killed. And I have to admit, thanks to Shevie and ParrotLady, they have got me thinking straighter. Smoking wont bring him back and yes I may have relied on smoking through the holidays to get me through and this year my goal will be to make it through one hard day at a time. I just realized my 6 month anny will be celebrated the same day he died. hmmm Is there a reason I quit on the 7th? Maybe it was him saying STOP KILLING YOURSELF and start living. Thanks everyone. I will have to visit often during the next two months (hopefully no one minds) and wont go far because it will be shakey for me. I have my phone numbers ready since I cant drive and type on a computer/laptop at the same time. Hugs and looking straight thru to the new year. Kim [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 6/7/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 156 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 3,913 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $631.8 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 13 [B]Hrs:[/B] 19 [B]Mins:[/B] 2 [B]Seconds:[/B] 39
17 years ago 0 607 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Oh Sparky, I know you are too close, I will behave this weekend lol. Hugs girlfriend! Kim [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 6/7/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 156 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 3,920 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $631.8 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 13 [B]Hrs:[/B] 19 [B]Mins:[/B] 38 [B]Seconds:[/B] 27
17 years ago 0 607 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I want to thank Rusty, Ladybugg, fagashlynne, gonnadoit, and everyone I've talked too offline also (and of course Casey) as without everyone here I wouldn't have gotten through this wave of who-knows-what or the blahs. I mentioned Shevie and ParrotLady earlier but I also want to thank all of you. I will stick close by the next couple months and once I make it through the holidays, a little stress will feel like a walk in the park. Hugs Kim [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 6/7/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 156 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 3,917 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $631.8 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 13 [B]Hrs:[/B] 19 [B]Mins:[/B] 23 [B]Seconds:[/B] 45

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