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Excuses?


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Do you consistently make excuses to get out of activities? Do you thing of doing something productive and then give yourself excuses in the form of but?  For example; I’d like to go for a jog today, BUT…

I’m too tired,

I’m too lazy,

It’s to cold/hot outside,

I ate too much today….

All of your ‘buts’ may represent the greatest obstacle to effective mood boosts. Fight these ‘but’ statements with something more positive. “I’d like to go for a run, but I’m too tired. BUT, if I went for a run, it would wake me up and I would feel better.”

Members, do you find yourself doing this? Have you discovered any effective ways of to rebuttal your buts?

 


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