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17 years ago 0 36 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
An update. I have reset my meter. You were all right, it is the right thing to do. But it really does hurt. oh well. Now I can plan on getting real satisfaction from adding days again. Butterfly Swimmer provided a great suggestion. When I make it to 500 days like she did, I will give myself the satifaction of adding my previous 162 days back in! Ok here I go again, thank to all. Rose [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]7/13/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 0 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 0 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $0.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 2 [B]Mins:[/B] 30 [B]Seconds:[/B] 58
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17 years ago 0 1148 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hello Rose2007, I'm sorry to hear a weak moment got the best of you and I am glad to hear you didn't let the slip get the rest of you. Surely it is the mark of intelligence to learn from ones mistakes and use that new found knowledge to be even more successful. You really should reconsider resetting your meter so it will continue to have meaning. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]3/15/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 118 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 2,360 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $495.60 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 19 [B]Hrs:[/B] 3 [B]Mins:[/B] 29 [B]Seconds:[/B] 59
17 years ago 0 36 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
WOW! What can I say. So many kind people who took the time and effort to help me. How can I not help myself! I just got done with work and back to my PC. I can not express how much the insight that each of you provided and how it hit home. You are God send. From 921 days to the relative new smoke free people. My heartfelt thanks. So here I am. I brushed my teeth, took a shower, trashed the smokes, and began my attack to save myself and hopefully others. I will sleep on the meter but am currently thinking I will leave it as is. Unless I have one more puff, then it is back to zero. But I will not be as I am getting back on the the path. I recalled the other major crave I had almost 160 days ago. I had finished completed a number of meetings with resulted in my getting an assignment where I could work at home for 9 months. After 5 years on the road it was like winning the lottery. The interview(s) was 3 hours from my home but close to where my sister lived. My husband had said when I was getting ready to go.. give yourself a break and visit your sister. I am type A who said, I have a lot of work to do at home but I will pack a bag. Such a long story. Anyway when I was done and found out that I got the job I wanted to smoke. I was by a store and said to myself "just get on the highway and go to your sisters". I took the wheel and drove like a crazy person. By the time I arrived I was back in control. Well thanks to you all, I am on my way to the highway. I what to be successful for myself, my family, my friends, and for all of you strangers who are so kind. Thank you for listening and sharing. I will keep you posted and try to find more time to help others. Ok I am in the drivers seat. Rose [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]1/30/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 162 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 3,240 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $639.90 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 22 [B]Hrs:[/B] 22 [B]Mins:[/B] 43 [B]Seconds:[/B] 58
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    $437,913.60

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17 years ago 0 672 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
rose2007, Be true to yourself. look at it this way.... if i took a puff right now do you think i would need to reset ? [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]1/1/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 921 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 32,235 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $5,986.50 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 131 [B]Hrs:[/B] 16 [B]Mins:[/B] 18 [B]Seconds:[/B] 1
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17 years ago 0 2830 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
One other comment regarding the meter, speaking from both observation and experience, resetting tends to lead to success more often than leaving it where it is. I'm not telling you that you SHOULD reset, but rather, I've seen more people who reset, especially if they smoked more than one cigarette and on more than one occassion, go on to have successful quits than those who keep it where it is. I think the reason is because it gives smoking a consequence and makes it more real. If you don'r reset, what's to keep you from doing it again? On the other hand, having been in this situation, I know how hard it is to reset, especially with more than 100 days on the meter. I did that, and I HATED having to look at my meter each and every time I logged in because it was a constant reminder of the fact that I slipped. I felt like those 3 slips (9 cigarettes total) did not negate all of the hard work I'd done for the 4 1/2 months before I reset. So, after 500 days of living with the reset meter, I put it back on my original date when I quit smoking. BUT, I left it there for 500 days. I do believe that if I hadn't reset, I probably would have smoked again, but of course, I can't be sure of that. The fact that I did reset was a HUGE deterrent from EVER doing it again! BUT, I do know how hard it is to reset and yes, it's very easy to lose momentum when you do. Take that as an unbiased, non-judgemental comment. What you do is YOUR decision and NOBODY has the right to tell you what you should or should not do with your meter, including me. Do whatever will help you stay quit the most. Crave the Quit! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]6/17/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 754 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 18,850 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $3,114.02 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 53 [B]Hrs:[/B] 4 [B]Mins:[/B] 50 [B]Seconds:[/B] 44
17 years ago 0 1040 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Rose, you've smoked 4 or 5 cigarettes in 162 days. Zero would have been better, but if you stop at this 4 or 5 that you've smoked... the physical effects are almost non-existant, and aside from the fact that you've sparked some craving... there's nothing standing between you and your continued recovery from this addiction. If you put the smokes aside now, you'll have to deal with some additional craving, probably... but it will pass quickly. You won't be facing what you did 162 days ago. Not by a long shot. As for your meter and it's value to you as motivation... if you feel that you'll lose some important motivation... leave it as it. It's a tool for you to use as you wish... for YOUR recovery. Change it or don't change it. That's your call and your right. The number one consideration is how changing it will effect your ongoing recovery. Don't worry about anything else. You've come a long way, Rose. As I've said before, no one gets that much time in by accident. you have to really mean business to get 162 days in. Well... you had a slip, but I know that you really want a smoke-free life... so learn from the slip, redouble your efforts and accept nothing less than the life you truly want. You're going to do this, Rose. And you've proven that you can do it. We're here for you! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]3/6/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 127 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 3,175 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1,174.75 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 20 [B]Hrs:[/B] 11 [B]Mins:[/B] 47 [B]Seconds:[/B] 30
17 years ago 0 3207 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Rose Thank you for posting this. I think it will serve as a good reminder for all of us how easy it is to slip back into the "just one won't hurt" frame of mind. I can feel how upset you are because of it. And how hard you are struggling with trying to control this nicotine addiction. Which, you, and none of us, can control. Now, throw them away and do not buy any more!!!!! You were smoke free for 20 weeks, surely you can be smoke free for 20 minutes, right? Then another 20 minutes, then another. Pamper yourself, drink lots of water, use whatever coping strategies you used before. Please do not let this slip turn into a full relapse. We are all here for you, so post before you buy or smoke another one, okay? Can you agree to that? -aloha [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]3/22/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 111 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 4,440 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $754.80 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 15 [B]Hrs:[/B] 13 [B]Mins:[/B] 3 [B]Seconds:[/B] 2
17 years ago 0 2830 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Rose, The nicodemon inside you has been awakened and is SCREAMING for more! Continuing on this way will surely lead to relapse. It will. You CANNOT be a social smoker. As addicts, we cannot have even one. Sure, I'm sure you know people who can smoke only one or two and don't seem to be addicted, but they actually have a genetic defect that breaks the nicotine down at a slower pace than it does in us. We don't have that gene! We are addicts and can't smoke "just one" once in a while. So, knowing that, you only have 2 options. You can either go back to smoking or you can quit again. Yes, I said quit again. You must face your triggers just as you did when you first quit over 5 months ago. You must say "I WANT TO BE A NON-SMOKER NO MATTER WHAT" and then make that happen. I know how easy it is to let the nicodemon in and think that it's not a big deal. I've done that TOO many times myself... but the fact is that that behavior ALWAYS leads to relapse. So if you want to quit and stay quit for good, then get out your coping mechanisms, read your reasons for quitting (if you wrote them down... if you didn't, then I suggest you do), find a quit buddy to email and help each other along, and keep that determination to stay quit. Make a promise to yourself that BEFORE you smoke next time, you will post here and wait for 10 responses. You CAN quit for good, but in order to do that, you must let go of the idea that you can smoke every once in a while when you want to. That's just not possible. We're all here to help you succeed. We've done it and so can you! Crave the Quit! [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]6/17/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 754 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 18,850 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $3,114.02 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 53 [B]Hrs:[/B] 4 [B]Mins:[/B] 47 [B]Seconds:[/B] 22
17 years ago 0 12049 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Rose, Get back in there and learn from this! Get those coping mechanisms out and prepare for those craves. Throw the pack away and know that you are stronger than you think! Josie, Support Specialist
17 years ago 0 36 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Thank you! I needed that Rose [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]1/30/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 162 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 3,240 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $639.90 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 22 [B]Hrs:[/B] 21 [B]Mins:[/B] 54 [B]Seconds:[/B] 27
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