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Challenging Worry- Thought Stopping


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I have to mention that once I was introduced to the idea, in an encounter group using "transactional analysis".  That was decades ago!
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Hi Samantha:  Definitely thought-stopping techniques work for me.  I used to yell out STOP when I had horrible thoughts coming at me at my most stressful anxious times.  It worked for me.  I rarely have to do it anymore.  Hope people try it, it can be a useful tool.  Same idea as snapping a rubber band on your wrist really hard to get your attention.
Sunny 
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Ducky

Interesting. Is this cycling consistent? Mine is and it has gone from annoying to just something I accept as happening. It cycles in a one month approximately cycle with no obvious trigger. Or possibly one that I block so it is not obvious. I attribute it to this major change in my life that has been happening for the last year but which will become final in the next month. It will be interesting to see if that ends the cycling. I often wondered if it might be from a limited amount of some brain chemical that I use up and need a rest period to rebuild it. It could be why I can tell worry to get lost and it does. (acceptance) It could be why SSRIs make me sick. I need to rebuild something but not on that big of a scale. This cycling in and out of worry and anxiety seems to be my last stumbling block. I used to take Trimipramine for it but since it has become weaker I just live with it. It always goes away. Knowing that is a big help. 

Davit.
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Hi,
 
This morning I feel like I'm either in my worry loop of extreme anxiety, or I'm blanked out completely.  The worry circle/thoughts are so strong in me that I can't identify if I feel the anxiety first or the worry thoughts trigger them.  Right now I'm particularly sensitive and scared of thoughts of death, suicide etc.  I would never do this, but when the thoughts keep coming up (for example: I had a dream that my friends mom committed suicide), I get scared of them, and then I keep having these thoughts.  It's quite distressing.  But I keep reassuring myself that until tuesday or wednesday of this week, I was not having these obsessive thoughts to this degree.  I just wish my brain would switch back to not obsessing.
 
rainy ducky 
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Samantha.

Yes it does, along with more pleasant thoughts or distractions, but yes, yelling stop, or get lost does work.

Davit.
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Members,

There are a number of CBT techniques that are commonly used to help people challenge worry including: thought records, thought stopping, worry time, challenging the value of worry, problem solving, experiments to increase intolerance of uncertainty and cognitive exposure. Let’s take a look at them one at a time:

Thought Stopping: Thought stopping is a technique that can be used to stop worry when it occurs.

For example, many people who work Monday to Friday start to worry about work (and all of their other problems) on…Sunday night. One worry seems to spiral out of control into worrying about everything. At such a time worrying typically doesn’t help people solve any problems. It just leads to a bad night’s sleep. At times when your worry seems like it is spinning out of control, you can try to use thought stopping to shock yourself out of the process. The basic idea is to startle yourself, so that you get out of the “worry loop” in your head. There are many different ways t do it but the basic idea is to imagine a big “Stop” sign in your mind and yell “Stop!” three times (If it is late at night or there are other people around, you may need to yell into your pillow or just imagine yelling the word). Believe it or not, some people this technique to be extremely helpful. Don’t knock it until you try it.

Does this strategy work for you?

 Samantha, Health Educator 

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