Being able to count on something is really important to me. I think I search for something I can control, when things aren't relliable. If change expected, then I can feel that control, since I am disposed to deal with it. My failing point is when I underestimate the difference between my ability and need for help, and when that is exaggerated. That's when "fear goggles" harm my estimation , and I stumble.
Hugs, good for you on your success for the evening. I love what you said about change being the only constant in life. It's a universal truth and so grounding when you realize it's the one thing you can count on!
Whatever you decide, I wish the best for you. You seem like a smart and nice person, and I like to think that things work out for nice people who think as well.
I don't know about the other folks, but I spent most of the day cleaning again. cleaning out my truck as I'm going to sell that before I go east. It's just too expensive to run with the gas prices these days.
Well, I hope you have a good night and that you can see the positive in your life, like all of your friends here for a start!
I wish I could appreciate my four eyes, but it's one of those days that I'm there are too many bales of hay, and I'm dizzy trying to decide which to choose. What a glorious weekend! But I feel like I have my face pressed up against the window, like I was a kid, and I taste that funny off-taste of the window and can't make myself just "go out".
It's like being at a buffet,, and not knowing where to start, and I just starve...that's what happened to the donkey. The story of the donkey is actually an allegory used in economics to explain the importance of decicision-making.
I think I need to unwind, since I can see few people are posting, and hopefully enjoying their weekends, as we resume our preparation for Spring!
Something interesting I learned today. I don't know if it translates into this situation but a donkeys eyes are situated such that they can see all four feet at the same time. Weird huh?
Analysis paralysis - gets me a lot of the time too. Sometimes I do decision trees, pros and cons, and other things to try to help me decide. Sometimes I end up waiting too long and the decision gets made for me. To quote a rock song, "If you choose not to decide, you still have made the choice."
Thinking of you all and wishing good things for all of you!
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