Hi Kevin,
After following the forum posts for several months I agree that one can get the impression that people are anti-medication here. I seriously doubt that this is done intentionally, rather just a reflection of their own personal viewpoints surfacing. Personally, I wouldn't be surprised if 50% or more of the people here were on medication in one form or another whether they're taking a daily SSRI or a benzo PRN (as needed).
I think it's understandable (and healthy) to have a certain level of fear with regards to taking medication, what with all the horror stories and related personal experiences about side-effects, adverse events, problems with withdrawal, etc., not to mention the general stigma of taking medication. I also think a backlash effect has been occurring in the past few decades after all the promises and miracles of SSRI's and other new medications didn't fully materialize.
With that said, studies have shown that medication and/or therapy are effective courses of treatment. More recently, CBT has been shown to be one of the most effective courses of treatment. As we know, CBT takes work, and depending on the severity of the condition, medication may be required to bring a person's functioning level to a point where they're able to engage in CBT or psychotherapy.
As it's been said by others, everyone is different and may or may not respond to a particular course of treatment(s). While it may be difficult to do, there shouldn't be any self judgment tied to another person's related experiences or opinions. I find that reading the experiences of others suffering from the same disorder that effects me is extremely helpful and reassuring. I also keep in mind that these are personal experiences and they may or may not be the best thing for me.
In my opinion, the best we can do is treat our anxiety disorders with treatments that are best suited to our individual cases. While I don't believe there is necessarily a "cure", effective treatment can keep anxiety in remission so we can go about leading healthy, productive lives.
Take care,
Flint