Hi Loves trees: I asked my friend to talk to me about anything at all - I just listened at the other end, knowing someone was there. I would answer or add to the conversation as best I could, she knowing that I might be breathless or crying a little, but we continued on any topic. It was never about the "panic", any old boring topic did the trick. She never commented about it, just did exactly as I asked her, to keep talking about anything, boring stuff, anything. Then I could catch my breath, heart would stop racing and I could feel myself starting to relax and I would let her know. That's when I'd thank her for being there for me and we'd share a laugh and she'd say, until next time, to which I'd answer, hope there isn't a next time! our joke. We are still friends but I have moved away since then and we don't see each other as often. We have lunch together every now and then to catch up on news and we go on outings together.