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I am looking for some advice. I am a mom of and 11 year old going on 35. She is getting older and branching out. My husband has his hobbies and does others things outside of family stuff. I have realized that I don't really have much life of my own outside of my family. 
How do I figure myself out? I don't even know what I like? I feel guilty doing anything outside of my family.

I am not sure how to start figuring myself out. I feel selfish.

Help :)

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