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Hi Ashley, everyone:  I'm a worrier. (sounds like AA)  I've tried the worry for a limited time, say an hour or so set aside.  That doesn't work for me.  What works for me is finding solutions.  Sometimes I write the worries down on one side of paper, then write down the worse thing which can happen if the worry comes true, or better yet, write down what can I do to make it better.  If I can make it better by doing something, then that's good for me.  If I can't do anything, that's a little harder, but then the serenity prayer comes into play.  You know, the one that says "accept the things you cannot change".  If I know that I have done as much as I can at the moment to help solve whatever the worry is, then I try and let it go with prayer.  I give it to the Lord to deal with and help as He is much better at it than I am and knows what we need. :)
 
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Ashley

I used to be a worrier till I found it did no good. It is going to happen whether I want it to or not. A little worry will see to it that it goes the way I'd like. (if I have any say) but a lot of worry gets in the way of doing it and it may not get done at all. Am I 100% successful. Nope but I'm working on it.

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Members,

There are a number of CBT techniques that are commonly used to help people challenge worry including: thought records, thought stopping, worry time, challenging the value of worry, problem solving, experiments to increase intolerance of uncertainty and cognitive exposure. Let’s take a look at them one at a time:

Challenging the Value of Worry: Many people who worry find it difficult to challenge their worry because of their basic beliefs about worrying. As we discussed before, worry a little about a problem makes some sense because it can lead to the identification of a problem and problem solving. On the other hand, worrying more that a little usually doesn’t get you any further ahead. Worrying that doesn’t lead pretty quickly to problem solving doesn’t get you anywhere. Unfortunately, many people who worry have beliefs about worrying that encourage them to worry more, rather than less. For example, if you have beliefs such as “Worrying makes me a better person,” Worrying helps me to solve problems,” “Worrying helps me do a better job,” and “Worrying about something makes it more likely that it will happen,” you may want to spend some time challenging those beliefs about worry and what worry does for you.

Does this strategy work for you?
Ashley, Health Educator

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