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anerol,  I remember you talking before about some guests that might be coming to visit.  I am so sorry that this rude and controlling woman is making you unhappy.  I am sorry she has stirred things up with your family and is making your living situation uncomfortable. I can see how you would want to move out and how it would be scary.  I think it would be great if you could move out if you want to,  in the same token I would not do anything impulsive or rash just yet.  I think it is good that you are searching for a apartment so that you can leave in the future when you think you are ready.  When will these guests be leaving?  Can you hold out till then, when you have time to really plan a move and are not being rushed or feel you are being pushed into moving?  I am sorry you are having to go through all this.  I wish I could be there to help you.  Just remember they will be gone eventually, there is plenty of time to plan a well thought out escape later.
 
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I started a discussion yesterday... or I thought I did, but I can't find it. Maybe I pushed the wrong button again.
I was just updating about myself since I was gone for a few weeks. The guests that i've been dreading have arrived and it has been very nerve wrecking. Things have stirred up with my family also due to the guests and it makes me want to leave and move out. I have searched for apartments but I am really scared to live on my own alone. I have not gone out to public without my support person for over a year or so. so I'm still debating. I do wonder if this can change me for the better also.


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