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14 years ago 0 112 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Anerol,
I don't know how things work where you are but I went directly to the mental health and addiction services here. The first person I spoke to was a mental health councillor who then got me hooked up with my doctor who is a psychiatrist but he specialized in withdrawal from meds. It took a while to get to see him, well actually about 10 days, which ,from what I hear is very quick....it usually takes 2 months.
I found him to be very sincere and caring, he even gave me his office number to call if I had trouble and guess what he actually called back the same day . He also ensured that I enrolled in the anxiety group therapy program.
All in all, I've been lucky , even  though some days I think my world is ending.
 
I wish you all the best in finding a good therapist... I'ii be thinking of you my prayers.
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Hey Davit, thanks for sharing! That's good to know for me that there are therapist who will actually do the job.
 
Hi Samantha, thanks for that information. This is what I was looking for, I'll print it out and use it as reference.

14 years ago 0 6252 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
anerol.

My therapist is actually a drug and alcohol councillor and she is very good. If I go there and don't want to talk by the time the hour is up she will have dragged every thing out of me. I go away feeling like I can take on the world. Good therapists are worth there weight in Gold. If I didn't have her I would do without. Some one that won't talk to you and can't get out of you what you don't want to talk about isn't going to do you any good. Keep looking, mine can't be the only good one. The one previous to her had more problems than the people she was dealing with. Just like any field
some are better than others. The important thing is that if you are not totally comfortable you wont get any benefit.

Davit     
14 years ago 0 2606 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi anerol,
 
There is a checklist a therapist I was looking at recommended me to use when looking.....  A great tool and maybe something you can use.
 
•  Feel free to interview a prospective therapist. Ask questions about their style of therapy and training, fee structure, cancellation policy, insurance reimbursement, how long they have been in practice, and if they are familiar working with the kinds of issues you wish to present in therapy.

•  Give some thought to whether you should see a man or a woman therapist.

•  Remember that different people work together in different ways. You should feel comfortable with the style of your therapist.  Sometimes it takes a few "tries" to find a good match.  It is OK to shop around until you find the right therapist for you.

•  Expect and demand ethical practices, especially and including issues of confidentiality and any form of physical contact.

  Remember that therapy, in the hands of a skilled therapist, is a powerful and life-changing experience. It has been shown to be effective for a variety of illnesses and problems. If you need therapy and work as an active participant in your own treatment, you can expect it will be well worth the time and money you invest.

What Type Of Therapist Do You Need?
There are many types of licensed mental health professionals, differing in educational backgrounds, training, licensure, philosophy, and technique.

Psychiatrists are medical doctors and can prescribe medication. Very few psychiatrists also provide psychotherapy, but usually refer to and work in conjunction with other psychotherapists.

Psychologists usually have a Doctorate in Psychology and have completed an internship under supervision.

Counsellors usually have a Master's degree in Counselling and have completed an internship under supervision.

Clinical Social Workers typically have a Master's degree in Social Work and have completed a supervised internship.

Other types of licensed professionals include Marriage and Family Counsellors and Chemical Dependency Counsellors.

What Theoretical Orientation Do You Want Your Therapist To Have?

Many differences between therapists show up in the area of theoretical orientation, which describes their basic philosophy and beliefs about what causes mental health distress and how they work with clients. See below for definitions of theories and techniques used in therapy. Many therapists work with clients in a variety of ways and ascribe to more than one theoretical perspective.

What Are Some Questions You May Want To Ask?
It is important to get as much information about a therapist as possible before entering into a therapeutic relationship with him or her. Remember, you will be sharing very personal information with your therapist so it will need to be an individual you have confidence in and can connect with. It's OK to interview a therapist, either in a phone conversation or in a first session, so that you can obtain the necessary information to make a well-informed decision. Here are examples of some of the types of questions you may want to ask:

What are your credentials and training?

What are your areas of expertise and specialization?

What specific training do you have in your areas of specialization?

Are you on the provider list for my insurance plan?

What is your standard fee? How long are sessions? Do you have a sliding fee scale? Are fees
different for individual, couples, or group therapy?

How many clients have you worked with that have had similar issues to mine? How did you work with them and how did it help?

Are you in good standing with your licensing board? Has anyone ever made a complaint against you? If so, how was it resolved?

Do you receive your own supervision, consultation, or therapy from a professional?

Where did you go to graduate school and where did you do your internship?

How long have you been in private practice?

What are your beliefs about how therapy should work? What do you do during sessions and
what do you expect from a client during and between sessions?


Samantha, Health Educator
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Hi Everyone,
I may have written a similar post before, but lately, I'm really considering on finding a therapist. My first therapist, I met for only one day when I was prescribed on Lexapro (SSRI) and I never went back, because I thought I didn't need to. The second one I had another therapist after I got off and that lasted about 3 months. He was really nice but I felt like I was pulling teeth all the time, when I was there... trying to find things to say. He never really said much except "You're depressed" and "You worry". So I was wondering how everyone else's experiences were with their therapists and some tactics on finding the right one. Any suggestions or tips? Thanks a lot. 


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