Hi Lisa,
Here are some general tips from our online program to keep in mind when challenging your thoughts:
The following ten questions will help you to challenge any anxious thoughts. When you have an anxious thought, answer some of these 10 questions:
Is it "true"?
How do I know it€™s true?
Is it 100% true? (remember something that is 75% or 99% true is not 100% true)
What's the evidence for it being true?
What's the evidence against it being true?
Has it ever happened before?
What's different now?
If it were true, how bad would it really be?
What's the worst thing that could happen?
If the worst thing happened, how bad would it really be?
Challenge your anxious thoughts to one specific situation
Challenge one thought at a time
Start out by asking, "what's the evidence for this anxious thought?" and list all of the evidence that supports it
Then ask the question, €œwhat€™s the evidence against this anxious thought?€ and list all of the evidence that does not support it
Use the other questions to help you. Sift through the evidence for and against the anxious thought
If you aren€™t sure which of the 10 Questions to ask, just pick a few of them. If the first one doesn€™t quite fit, the next probably will
If other anxious thoughts come up while you€™re in the process of challenging, write the new thought down and challenge it later.
Challenge your thoughts on paper as soon as possible
Challenge some anxious thoughts every day on paper. If you do, sooner or later you€™ll be able to do it in your head and in the heat of the moment.
Keep us posted on your progress,
Casey
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The PC Support Team