I'm happy to tell all of you that again I made it through another day of sobriety, and again my BF came over, this time with her sister. They drank wine, I had a club soda. And now for my predicament and I'm hoping someone will have some good advice. I love my BF dearly and she is very good to me, but....lately she shows up at my house 4-5 times a week. I'm a very private person, I like my quiet time during the week. I dont know how to tell her to stop coming over so often. She will just send me a text saying shes coming over, and is here minutes later. Tonight I quickly sent a text back saying I just want to chill and that I was tired. Not 5 minutes later her sister showed up at my door and said she was meeting D here. A couple minutes later my BF did call her sister to say not to come here but it was too late. So my BF ended up coming over too. How do I tell her that I need my space? I'm sure it's because she's lonely because she recently ended a three year relationship and she was very hurt by it. I think she is depending on me to replace the loss she feels but I have a child to care for and she needs my attention at night with homework and some quality time with me. I didn't mind when it was just Fridays that she would come over, but now it's almost daily and I need a break. Any advice?
