Good for you, for telling your husband at least a little bit about your efforts. Weight loss is a great excuse. Does he have any idea that you're uncomfortable with your level of drinking? My husband was very surprised when I told him that I thought I was drinking so much that it was affecting my health. And my husband and I are VERY good friends -- it is totally amazing to me that he isn't as concerned about it as I am. But I'm still afraid to use the word 'alcoholic.' And he is quite supportive, but when I said I might try not to drink at all during the 4th of July party, he said -- "Oh, but it's a holiday. You could drink on that day, right?" YES! I love that! Except.... God, I'm so afraid to break my current momentum. I've done this before. I did it last year, and the year before, and the year before that. I have gone for days -- sometimes even weeks -- at a time, then "oh, but it's just one day" "just one drink" "just one binge" and there I am, back to square one, and it takes me months to slowly build up to the constant hangovers, to the point where I'm ready to quit again. I secretly threw up first thing in the morning twice last month, because I felt like stink. I hide it so well -- I'm such a beautifully functioning alcoholic. It's pathetic! And I don't want to be there again. Aargh.