Thats a good question. The question is are you able to do that consistently? And not pick up a drink after a prolonged absence? And once you take that first drink, are you going out of control? The term craving used by Alcoholics is, after math of we take the first drink? Can we go without the 2nd drink consistently?
And after a prolonged absence, the thought we can handle liquor normally is what AA calls it obsession of the mind. Where it tricks the person into believing he is a normal drinker.
Still trying to determine what a true alcoholic is. When I make a decision not to drink I usually abide by it and take a drink only after I have done everthing else or sometimes there is nothing around to drink or everything is closed so I accept that and don't go crazy without a drink..I wonder then ..Am I an alcoholic?
Here is a line from the book called Alcoholics Anonymous:
If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if
when drinking, you have little control over the amount you take, you
are probably alcoholic. If that be the case, you may be suffering from
an illness which only a spiritual experience will conquer.
Welcome to the Alcohol Help Center and thank you for sharing with us and taking steps to getting the help you need.
Start working through program, a big component of it is learning about yourself so you can better understand your addiction.
Some people find that taking a break from drinking for a while really helps them get control of their alcohol use.
Start reading through the forums. I think you'll find there are many people out there you can relate to. The forum is also full of advice and will offer you the wisdom of many diverse experiences in relation to alcohol addiction.
Check back soon and let us know how you're doing. We're always here to answer any questions you may have or to provide you with some feedback.
I am an alcoholic who has been heavily drinking for many years. I am 39 yr old male with a wife and 3 kids. I just cant seem to stay dry for long periods of time. Even drank on antabuse with no ill effects. I need help !!!!
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