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What a great post Brenda!  Thank you.
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Thank you for sharing Brenda.
 
 

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How true. I've been pretending to be a nonsmoker for three years tomorrow. See, nonsmoker implies that I never smoked. Former smoker or ex-smoker implies that I had. I tried first to quit smoking as a former or ex- smoker. That didn't work, because every time I got a craving for a cigarette it made sense. I craved them because they were calling me; burdening me even. Bren-da. Bren--da! We had a familiar relationship, although it was an abusive one--a domestic violence situation. Nicodemon tried to isolate me from everyone, told me that no one loved me and never will the way that she did. Made it hard to give up the only thing that had always stuck by me no matter what the adventure. I didn't know how I was going to live without her. You've seen the commercial: Now that you no longer smoke, how are you going to tie your shoes (without cigarette hanging from your lips). However, somewhere along the line you get smart and realize that you may have once had a good relationship, but now your friend is literally trying to kill you and is cunning and evil, stepping out on you. You're realizing all of the carnage she has let in her wake. As a nonsmoker, it was (is) insane when I got a craving, because why would a nonsmoker get a craving for cigarettes. So it was easier to ignore them. Brenda, the nonsmoker, has never smoked a cigarette before in her life. Brenda, the former smoker, thinks she's in love every time she hears the word cigarette. Shusssh! Now I'm going to revert back to pretending.
 
We are who we pretend to be is listed among this year's most beautiful theories.
 
Scientists' greatest pleasure comes from theories that derive the solution to some deep puzzle from a small set of simple principles in a surprising way. These explanations are called "beautiful" or "elegant". Historical examples are Kepler's explanation of complex planetary motions as simple ellipses, Bohr's explanation of the periodic table of the elements in terms of electron shells, and Watson and Crick's double helix. Einstein famously said that he did not need experimental confirmation of his general theory of relativity because it "was so beautiful it had to be true." ~ http://edge.org/
Simplicity is elegance a math teacher once told me. That premise is holding up. Each year, John Brockman, the manager of Edge.org puts forward an open-ended question to the world's greatest scholars and intellectuals and to those of us who are just nosy, who are used to responding to background noise.

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