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I Slipped!?


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I have "slipped" (such a euphamism -- how about "failed?") so often in my quits that I feel like I've spent more time flat on my back than on my feet.  For me, the temptation arises when I can (um, "could") smoke without getting caught by people who supported me (e.g., spouse, friends, etc.)  I would be traveling or home alone, and no one would ever find out.  I never quite outgrew adolescence in that sense. 
 
Facing the same thing today -- spouse is gone for the day and will be babysitting until late tonight.  Like Samantha said, a Plan is everything!  I knew today was coming, so I planned for it.  I have a long list of things I've been wanting to do (clean our apartment balcony, organize my personal files, switch my clothes from summer to winter), and I know myself well enough to know that all those voices inside my head will be telling me all day that it will okay to grab a cigarette somewhere, because "no one will ever know."
 
I think I've FINALLY grown up enough to know that I will know, and that I'm doing this for myself and no one else.  Freedom isn't free, they say, and this time, I have a plan of attack to win and keep that freedom.  For me, Step One of the plan begins here at the forums.  I have every opportunity to blow my quit today, and every reason not to.  This day will be a WON day for me.
 
peteg
14 years ago 0 2606 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hello Lissy,
 
Thank you for sharing your struggles with us. It’s common to have a slip or two after quitting smoking.  Don’t loose sight of your goal, Even when you have a setback think of yourself as getting stronger and more experienced in the quitting process
 
It's important to go back to a full quit attempt now or you may slide back into your previous smoking pattern over time.

The most common triggers for lapsing are:
Problems with withdrawal or medication side effects
Stress or conflict    
Cravings and/or urges 
Negative feelings : depression, anger, anxiety, etc.
Pressure in social situations where others smoke

A slip is usually an important learning experience. It means that you need to work on something in order to succeed fully. The fact that you slipped means that you first had to succeed at quitting. That's a good sign for eventual success.
 
Work through the online program, in milestone 4 you will find a great resource to help you learn what specific triggers you have and also ways in which to overcome them. 
 
 Members, what coping  mechanisms have you found helpful in getting through cravings?
 
 
Samantha, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 3 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I slipped and have kept slipping on exactly a week after my quit date, I feel horrible and I know I need to quit but withdrawl was adding to my current chronic medical condition which I think I must consult a doctor to make sure I'm doing it properly for my situation. I was honestly doing well for that week except the fatigue and very low heart rate. I was so proud and I have not given up on this dream of being an EX smoker but its going to take alittle more time for me, My husband and I have stopped smoking in the house and car and we are determined to quit for good. I just hope I can do it before I do to much damage to my already diseased lungs. Anyway I had to admit my failure and keep this site on  my mind and in my goals.
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Members,
 
Have you slipped? As many of you know quitting is a process and the average quit attempts before a final quit is 7.  But sometimes when we slip we can feel defeated.  It is important to look at a slip as a learning opportunity.  
 
From members who have slipped, how did you get motivated and get back at it? Also, what did you learn? Please share!
Ashley, Health Educator

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