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15 years ago 0 639 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Rooting for you, Pete!
My Milage:

My Quit Date: 1/19/2009
Smoke-Free Days: 73
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 2,190
Amount Saved: $602.25
Life Gained:
Days: 12 Hrs: 0 Mins: 44 Seconds: 58

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    $50,416.83

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    Days: 1123 Hours: 3

    Minutes: 13 Seconds: 52

    Life Gained

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    5574

    Smoke Free Days

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    167,220

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15 years ago 0 916 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
You can do it Peteg!!!
I'm sorry about your visit to the dentist. I hate dentists. It is a childhood trauma. We will be rooting for you. Hang on and stay alert.
Marivi

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 1/23/2009
Smoke-Free Days: 69
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 1,035
Amount Saved: $103.50
Life Gained:
Days: 7 Hrs: 22 Mins: 15 Seconds: 20

15 years ago 0 80 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Thanks!  Goin great -- I could do without a return visit to the dentist from hell today, but other than that, it's all good.
Thanks for all the support!
peteg

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 2/10/2009
Smoke-Free Days: 51
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 2,550
Amount Saved: $573.75
Life Gained:
Days: 9 Hrs: 9 Mins: 3 Seconds: 38

15 years ago 0 406 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Peteg,
 
We're all rooting for ya!  You can do it, be strong
 
Karen, Health Educator
15 years ago 0 625 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
You can do it pete.......that's just what it is....a net and you don't need it because you aren't going to fall!!  Your body has long since flushed out the drug.  The minute amount you have been getting isn't doing anything for you.....except making you feel safe.
 
Others here have done it and felt just like you....and they found out it was fine.  Remember.....it's the addict in your head now...like the rest of us.....and we just say N.O.P.E.
You can do it buddy........
 
Bob


My Milage:

My Quit Date: 1/27/2009
Smoke-Free Days: 65
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 1,950
Amount Saved: $273.00
Life Gained:
Days: 13 Hrs: 14 Mins: 38 Seconds: 46

15 years ago 0 80 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
With all best wishers to the cold turkey folks (God love you all -- I could never be like you!!) I'm facing day one without the patch tomorrow, which, coupled with a most unscheduled dentist visit, makes me hope that I will continue this good work unfettered.
Still, I'm taking my own net away.  That gives me pause.
 
peteg

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 2/10/2009
Smoke-Free Days: 50
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 2,500
Amount Saved: $562.50
Life Gained:
Days: 9 Hrs: 6 Mins: 56 Seconds: 4

15 years ago 0 4 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I am so glad to hear that I am not the only one who has "little demons" trying to sabatoge me....and it doesn't just happen with the smoking. Any time I start to be successful at anything, it seems I obviously don't want to and I fail.  Such a load of crap we feed ourselves....It sounds like you are doing great though, despite the nagging from from those demons. It's a struggle, but keep on keeping on. We can do this Pete!! Keep posting too cuz I think it really helps. I am only on day 10 and I am wearing the patches too.  I think, for me, I am really ready because the voices (so far) haven't been hounding me too bad. I've even been out drinking (which i said i wouldn't do for awhile, but what are you gonna do?) and if you drink at all, you know how hard it can be to not smoke. But not once did I really want one. I was impressed. With myself.  Imagine that. I am impressed with you as well! Keep it up.

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 3/9/2009
Smoke-Free Days: 9
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 135
Amount Saved: $38.48
Life Gained:
Days: 0 Hrs: 22 Mins: 14 Seconds: 58

15 years ago 0 80 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Wow, this is incredible.  The first time I'm certifiably normal in my life is when I quit smoking and hear demonic voices in my head???  This is SO the story of my life!!
peteg

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 2/10/2009
Smoke-Free Days: 35
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 1,750
Amount Saved: $393.75
Life Gained:
Days: 6 Hrs: 13 Mins: 18 Seconds: 41

15 years ago 0 916 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi MM
I don't know when our smoking toughts will cease to exist, but I can only tell you what I read about.
Allen Carr writes in his book that every smoker looks for a moment of revelation, or the time when this smoking thoughts will cease to exist; he says that if we are constantly thinking about this moment, we will become anxious or deppressed and then prone to a relapse. He says that everysmoker has his time, and that it is not bad to think about smoking, the bad thing is to smoke; he says that we should welcome this toughts and look at them as an chance to retrain our brain!
It has helped me a lot, so every time a smoking tought comes by, I laugh at it and say, o it is my addict brain trying to fool me; my body doesn't need the nicotine anymore, and I'm free of the nasty slavery!! And I think about something that makes me feel happy.
This is my coping strategy;it took me a while to make it almost automatically but now it is easer for me to do it.
I guess that the moment of revelation Allen Carr writes in hi book is about the hapiness and freedom we feel being smokefree for one day at a time!
We are not going to run and have some heroine because we don't need it , our body and our mind doesn't need it' I guess it is the same with cigarrettes; if we don't put nicotine in our bodies, we will not have the need to get another cigarrette, so the trick is to convinve our mind that we don't need the first cigarrette, because there is not such thing as one cigarrette!
Marivi

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 1/23/2009
Smoke-Free Days: 53
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 795
Amount Saved: $79.50
Life Gained:
Days: 6 Hrs: 2 Mins: 56 Seconds: 16

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Peteg,
 
This post isn't creepy. What you are saying is completely normal.  We all have what some psychologists call "mind chatter".  It is the thoughts and little voices in our head.  Many psychologists claim that if you actively control your mind chatter positive thinking can become habitual and this can alleviate depression.  The same goes for panic.  In my opinion it can also be applied to addiction.  Although there are biological changes in depression, panic and addiction.  We can at least try to control the mental just by trying to control our thoughts. 
 
It seems to me you have been very successful at remaining positive throughout your quit.  Thats amazing!  It is normal for any of us to have little slips in thought.  This is normal and its great that you are so aware of it so you can correct it.  You know that it is irrational thinking, as deep down you know you CAN quit and you are in for the LONG HAUL!  Just keep telling yourself that and reminding yourself why you quit when every you have these feelings.  GUAAT!!
 
 
 
Ashley, Health Educator

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