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I know how you feel! The best thing that works for me is when I start feeling anxious and I start feeling that cold feeling go across my body, I hurry and remind myself to start breathing deep and that what I am feeling is just anxiety and that everything is ok. I have to tell myself this over and over and I usually start feeling better. It takes some practice but it does help. One thing I am learning (thanks to this website) is that your immediate thought patterns when you feel one coming on will either make it better or make it worse. Keep a list of the panic symptoms with you so when you start feeling your heart racing or you feel like you can't breathe, you can look at it and say, "Ok, I'm not going to die because this is a common physical symptom to a panic attack - I've gone through this before and I can get through this." That seems to help me. I'm sorry your mother made it worse for you! My mother does that for me, too! I've learned that she is not the person to talk to when I'm having panic. Another thing that helps when people are making you more anxious and you feel like you can't talk to anyone, is writing down how you are feeling. Write until you can write no more! I don't know why, but getting it out on paper seems to help. I think maybe it's because when you write, it's like talking to a friend that just listens without trying to make it better (or unknowingly worse). Hang in there and don't give up! :) - Even a thousand mile journey begins with one step.
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Hi everyone... I've been reading the book "Hope and Help for your Nerves" and it's been helping immensely, I've gone about 4 days with barely any anxious thoughts. Then suddenly today, I was at work and got a little dizzy, then upon worrying about it I got really hot and anxious...I was about to leave work so I got in my car and tried to calm down. I called my best friend who I usually talk to and it helped some but she had to get off the phone. I called my mom and told her what was happening. Instead of comforting me, she brought up something that would stress me out and the attack accelerated from there with the tingling numb hands, racing heart, dizziness and confusion, etc. I started breathing in and out of a paper bag and the hand tingling went away shortly afterwards. The valium kicked in a calmed me down...the problem I'm having now is -- is there anyway I could've stopped it before it got this bad? Does anyone have any ideas on calming your body down as you can feel it going out of control? I'm so lost and discouraged. I thought I was doing better. I know they say not to let a setback ruin your hopes for recovery, but this was just really unexpected and I can't help but think I could've preventedit had I not freaked out in the first place...I just start thinking and I can't stop and it all turns into this horrible cycle. I feel I dealt with it better than I would have a month ago, but still...it always gets the best of me. Help!!! Jen

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