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15 years ago 0 377 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Stormy,
You are so right about how quitting smoking changes how we deal with things in life that don't quite go our way.  I think often when these events happen, boy this would be one of those days I'd really want a cigarette.  It's almost like we thought smoking would be a way to get back at life for the pain it brought onto ourselves. Now that we are smoke free we are needing to relearn how to watch the feeling of unhappiness or unease without having to respond in a way that is not good for us.  As you said it does absolutely nothing to change the situation.  I've found that even over eating, drinking, coffee, and even some pharmaceuticals can all be used in this way also.  All I can say is that I commend you for coming to understand this for your 918+ days of being smoke free, and speaking about it to all of us that will or are going thorough some change in what we are expecting.  One other thing that I think might be interesting to do is to look back a year or two from now and see if maybe the plans that did not happen might have been the best decision for you looking back in hindsight.
Ron


My Milage:

My Quit Date: 6/17/2008
Smoke-Free Days: 218
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 3,924
Amount Saved: $1,079.10
Life Gained:
Days: 33 Hrs: 15 Mins: 33 Seconds: 50

15 years ago 0 12049 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
By the way your stats are amazing!
 

Josie, Health Educator
15 years ago 0 967 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Excellent Post Stormy, and so True!!
 
Kelly

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 12/6/2007
Smoke-Free Days: 412
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 12,360
Amount Saved: $1,545.00
Life Gained:
Days: 34 Hrs: 7 Mins: 18 Seconds: 8

15 years ago 0 303 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Great post Stormy! 
 
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15 years ago 0 1387 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Stormy:
    You are truly a nonsmoker.  Thanks for being there for the rest of us.
Kaiser

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 7/30/2008
Smoke-Free Days: 175
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 4,375
Amount Saved: $218.75
Life Gained:
Days: 35 Hrs: 7 Mins: 15 Seconds: 26

15 years ago 0 597 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I want to be just like you when I grow up!  Thanks for showing us that there is a light at the end of this tunnel!
My Milage:

My Quit Date: 10/22/2008
Smoke-Free Days: 91
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 3,640
Amount Saved: $728.00
Life Gained:
Days: 10 Hrs: 6 Mins: 29 Seconds: 49

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15 years ago 0 1985 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Congratulation Stormy 2.5 years+. I've been missing you!!  Hope to hear from you often.
My Milage:

My Quit Date: 1/22/2006
Smoke-Free Days: 1094
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 19,692
Amount Saved: $6,399.90
Life Gained:
Days: 199 Hrs: 14 Mins: 53 Seconds: 1

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Thanks for the support and positive words Sparky!
 
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Josie, Health Educator
15 years ago 0 355 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Thanks for that Stormy.
Angie


My Milage:

My Quit Date: 12/30/2008
Smoke-Free Days: 21
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 252
Amount Saved: $110.88
Life Gained:
Days: 1 Hrs: 22 Mins: 42 Seconds: 53

15 years ago 0 744 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
 Without going into details, I will just say that I have truly learned that it doesn't matter how well you plan something, life has a way of taking its' own path. Every thing we planned very carefully since Nov. seemed to have backfired, and I would remember back when I smoked and thought to myself, "Yep, this would have definitely been a smoking moment". I have moved on now, and I see situations differently. First, life in itself can be challenging at times, so why complicate it even more by inhaling all those toxins. Second, I like to be the one in control, not the junkie chatter. Smoking would not have reversed my plans back, nor would it have made the situations go any smoother.
  I live life now without that "need a smoke" issue thing darting back and forth in my head and pulsing throughout my entire body. I love my life! I am calmer, healthier, and most importantly, I am smoke-free!
  Each one of us are shining examples to others. We are not here just to "talk the talk", because we also have "walked the walk". We have all been there, we understand the difficulties, and we lift others up, by our own example. Encouragement can definitely go further than you can imagine. Way to go guys! 

My Milage:

My Quit Date: 7/17/2006
Smoke-Free Days: 918
Cigarettes Not Smoked: 7,344
Amount Saved: $1,428.41
Life Gained:
Days: 104 Hrs: 8 Mins: 10 Seconds: 44


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