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unfortunately I can't avoid the situation, it's my friends relative's funeral. I have to be there to support him. But whenever we hook up we (which isn't often) We have a little gab fest and it always involves smoking. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]2/14/2008 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 8 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 96 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $36.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 14 [B]Mins:[/B] 24 [B]Seconds:[/B] 52
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Gumdrop, You may be faced with situations that will trigger the urge to smoke. We call these high-risk situations. Review this emergency coping plan to help you deal with these situations. If you feel the urge, or are tempted to smoke: AVOID the situation. Identify the situations when you normally smoke or feel a craving for a cigarette. For most smokers, high-risk situations include work breaks, finishing meals, having coffee or being in a bar. Plan how you will avoid these situations for a few weeks. Plan for alternate activities. LEAVE the situation. If you find yourself in one of these high risk situations, leave if you can. And, leave before you get a craving. DISTRACT yourself from the craving. If you find yourself in a situation you can't leave and you get a craving, distract yourself from the craving by: �Thinking about something else, like your benefits of quitting smoking (or how much money you�re saving every week). �Do something else to distract yourself like drinking water or deep breathing to relax. �Think about an upcoming event in your life, such as a vacation. DELAY taking the cigarette. If you can't keep your mind off it, then make a deal with yourself that you will wait 5 minutes before you give into the craving. The craving will usually pass in a couple of minutes anyway. If you delay, the craving will go away. Use SELF TALK A craving may be accompanied by negative thoughts about your ability to resist it. Use positive self talk statements to combat your negative thoughts. Sylvie, Bilingual Health Educator
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I am searching for a bit of assistance, guidance. I have to attend a get together, with some friends, that I highly associate smoking with. I was hoping to avoid them for a while as to reduce the confrontation. I am already starting to prep myself that if I slip, it will be ok. WHAT I WANT To be preping myself for is that I WONT SLIP. If I slip this time I'll probably slip every other time too. Any suggestions? :confuse: [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]2/14/2008 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 8 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 96 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $36.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 14 [B]Mins:[/B] 23 [B]Seconds:[/B] 2

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