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16 years ago 0 8760 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Stickin, Good post. Sometimes it can be helpful to focus on what you have acheived to make you forget about what you're currently struggling with. Danielle, Bilingual Support Specialist
16 years ago 0 1985 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
On the contrary I am proud of everyone�s achievements. I am hoping that some words thrown out here will be the rights oneas that helps you to see just how well you have really done. It was not over for me in two weeks, heavens no and yes I agonized way beyond that. This is just the way it is. I want your transition to be as quick, painless and seamless as possible. Why, because I can appreciate what we go through. It is always good to write what you feel as it expresses your feeling to yourself as well as to others. This is what our site is about to help each other and make permanent quitter of each of us. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]1/22/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 570 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 10,260 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $3,135.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 104 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 59 [B]Seconds:[/B] 22
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Thinking about smoking is the last thing I want to do. It is those unwanted thoughts that just pop up that make you have to say no over and over to this addiction. As I learn more about positive thinking and the benefits of positive thinking I find myself wondering how I ever got away with this negative behavior so long. I believe we can tell ourselves what ever we want to believe and we will believe it. That is what happened when I first started to smoke, I told myself I liked it and the brain got a rush and I was hooked. once addicted it is easier to continue than to break the addiction. Habit becomes nature and you continue what is now your normal. Once you realize you are addicted your brain tells you two different things.(1) It will make you feel better & (2)you are destroying yourself. Now you are in the battle with the brain. What you tell yourself determines wheather you continue to smoke or you quit. It is completely up to us as individuals to make that decission. Beware,for the addiction will go to far extremes to make you think you need to smoke. There are withdrawal issues & there are denial issues. It took me 47 years to finally decide to quit. I am choosing to quit.I am quit because I dont want to smoke. I hope you choose to quit also. [color=Blue]BLUE CLOUD[/color] [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]7/4/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 42 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 840 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $168.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 5 [B]Hrs:[/B] 15 [B]Mins:[/B] 52 [B]Seconds:[/B] 36
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Nice post Stickin.. Smoking is 'nothing' - sometimes it takes a while quitting to realise this All the best buddy :) [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]2/13/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 548 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 16,440 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �4,110.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 88 [B]Hrs:[/B] 2 [B]Mins:[/B] 31 [B]Seconds:[/B] 25
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You are absolutely right. Isn't being where we are now...what it was all about to begin with? We get there, and then we still moan and groan. :blush: We did what we wanted to do. We put allot of effort into it. Now it's time to reap the rewards. Oh..did someone say rewards???? Hershey Bar Time. Byeeeee Mercy [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]1/21/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 206 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 4,120 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $920.82 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 27 [B]Hrs:[/B] 2 [B]Mins:[/B] 23 [B]Seconds:[/B] 58
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Stickin, I think that is why many say goodbye here. They need to stop seeing the struggling and need to move on to the positives of not. Not to say there isn't A LOT of positive here, there really is, but you have to take the positives with the negatives if you want to stick around this site. I still benefit from it a lot but can see one day needing to part. Who knows though, I could pull a Phil :p...just kidding luv. Audrey [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]1/16/2007 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 211 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 4,220 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $590.80 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 20 [B]Hrs:[/B] 14 [B]Mins:[/B] 12 [B]Seconds:[/B] 17
16 years ago 0 1985 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I remember quitting to be tough, touch and go the first week or two. At times I felt like I wasn�t going to make it those first couple of weeks so I used coping methods like taking a couple of aspiring, a shower, and hitting the sack. Sometimes I couldn�t sleep so I would have a beer or two or three and that made me want to smoke of course but it made it easier for me to fall asleep. And when I would wake up the next morning, I would ask myself did I make it? Did I make it? Why yes I guess I did, and so I dodged another bullet. Now don�t go using the beer remedy because it makes you want to smoke unless of course you are knocked out. I felt so proud of myself the next morning. Do you feel proud of yourself? It makes sense as it helps you to recover. And so the days just keep building on each other and each of those days you should be saying to yourself YES, YES, YES I AM MAKING IT� and �I AM VERY, VERY GOOD�. Smoking is a nothing; it is just a plain nothing. It has no value and each day you stay away from it, this becomes ever so more apparent. You CAN get yourself unhooked. I think it is really important that you learn to block out the smoking thoughts (distractions and not to dwell) as it should shorten the recovery process for you. Dwelling on the positive aspects of not smoking would be helpful; by filling our minds with good thoughts and letting the negative thoughts take a back seat. In your mind picture yourself as a non-smoker and re-draw that picture often. Please no smoking and let�s ban smoking thoughts. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B]1/22/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 570 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 10,260 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $3,135.00 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 104 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 42 [B]Seconds:[/B] 6

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