I'm sorry to hear things aren't going well. My husband and I are moving to a new city, and even though we finally found a place, I'm still not over the big apartment hunt. We have 3 cats, so I know what a hassle it can be. I'll be thinking about you. As my husband is fond of telling me (and he's always right), things have a way of working out. I know it's hard to make a change, but who knows, it might turn out to be a wonderful experince (once you get over the stress of moving of course). I hate when people tell me they know just how I'm feeling because that's impossible. I can say, however, I've been through something similar over the past few weeks so I can certainly sympathize with you. Hang in there and know there are people out there praying for you.
Katie