Welcome Mama G! You won't find a better support site than this (and if you do, don't tell us! We think we're the best! :p )
To answer your question, I tried Smoke Away and it did work, but I was getting awfully weird dreams, so after about 4 or 5 days, went Cold Turkey. It wasn't easy, but like others have said, there's not an easy way to do this... you have to want it more than you want to smoke. No aid can quit for you... you have to put in the hard work, and the aid can help you transition to thinking, acting and living like a non-smoker.
If you're trying to decide which aid to use (or if to use an aid), ask yourself this question: "What withdrawal symptom(s) am I most afraid of?
If the answer is depression, then talk to your doctor about Zyban or Wellbutrin.
If the answer is Physical Withdrawal symptoms and cravings, then get an NRT such as the patch or the gum.
If the answer is that you are afraid you will have a constant desire to smoke, then talk to your doctor about Chantix - supposedly (I've never tried it), it takes away the desire to smoke and blocks smoking from having any positive effect on your brain... so even if you smoke, it's as if you haven't.
If the answer is that you're afraid of prolonging the process of quitting, then I suggest going cold turkey.
The best thing I can tell you is to talk to your doctor and let him/her help you decide which method is best for you. Again, welcome and congrats on the decision to quit!
Crave the Quit!
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[B]My Milage:[/B]
[B]My Quit Date: [/B] 6/17/2005
[B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 690
[B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 17,258
[B]Amount Saved:[/B] $2849.7
[B]Life Gained:[/B]
[B]Days:[/B] 49 [B]Hrs:[/B] 3 [B]Mins:[/B] 22 [B]Seconds:[/B] 23