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so...i'm quitting..i quit...etc. When do we consider ourselves as non-smokers? When we will not think of a puff? of a cigarette during a difficult day? I know this girl who quitted almost 1,5 year ago..and she tells me that there are moments she would like to smoke.(but she doesn't). Is this normal? I don't think that people who never smoked,have this "need".Will we always have this need? Or it will just disappear one day like we never smoked? Do we really consider ourselves as smokers?ex smokers? non smokers? i got confused today.... :blush: [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 6/19/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] -2 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 0 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �0 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 0 [B]Seconds:[/B] 0
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Thank you All... i guess it just depends on the person,right? Sometimes i think that i will always want a puff..when i 'm out..when i take a coffee..when i'm nervous... But then it's all a game of the mind. So... i think it will be over. Starting today! ;) [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 6/19/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 0 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 0 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] �0 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 0 [B]Hrs:[/B] 0 [B]Mins:[/B] 0 [B]Seconds:[/B] 0
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It just takes time and work. But you can do this. Set your mind to it Kate. Thinkin' of ya, [IMG]http://i8.photobucket.com/albums/a17/Daniwiz/Animation1.gif[/IMG] [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/12/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 38 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,156 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $152 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 3 [B]Hrs:[/B] 5 [B]Mins:[/B] 49 [B]Seconds:[/B] 42
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17 years ago 0 3368 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
A lot of the questions you asked can only be answered by you, because everyone's quit is different. You decide how your quit is going to be; no one else. We can tell you of our experiences and hopefully you will find the information useful ... but ultimately ... your quit is unique. The day I quit I considered myself a non-smoker. I still think of 'a puff', but I do not think of having 'a puff'. On a difficult day I know that in the past I would have been smoking. This does not make me want to smoke. It disgusts me that I tried to cover up my emotions with smoke. I mean how dumb is that? How your friend feels is how your friend feels. Will you feel that way. You may or you may not. What is normal for her does not mean it will be normal for you. I have other addictions that I have beat and I never crave them. I intend on doing the same with this addiction. Others think they will crave forever. It is really up to you. That is the beautiful thing about this world ... we are all different. Do what works for you in order for you to stay quit ... that is what is most important. [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/12/2006 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 35 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 1,065 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $140 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 2 [B]Hrs:[/B] 23 [B]Mins:[/B] 43 [B]Seconds:[/B] 5
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Hi Kate, Eventually your smoking days will be distant memories, just have a little patience that day will come. Danielle __________________________________ The SSC Support Team
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Hi, Kate. Congratulations on your planned quit. This is a wonderful thing you're doing for yourself. One thing to keep in mind is nicotine is a drug of addiction and we are all addicts. Just as an alcoholic will always want a drink and a junkie will always want a fix, we will always want a smoke. Don't despair, though. This won't be a constant, demanding need. It will be something that will come up from time to time, but the instances will become weaker with more time between them the longer we stay smoke-free. Smoking was tightly intertwined with every aspect of our lives for so long. We formed memory associations between events and smoking. Now that we've quit, when we experience an event that we previously smoked during, our memory association will want to make us smoke again. This triggers a crave. When we get through that event smoke-free, the association with smoking is weakened. Eventually, the link will be broken and we will be able to experience the event without smoking thoughts. Sometimes this happens the first time, sometimes it takes a few instances, but eventually the association will die. There's also some physiological recovery the brain needs to go through, repairs that need to be made. Research has shown this process typically takes 12 - 18 months. You won't be craving for 12 - 18 months, though. Don't worry about that. You're doing the right thing by learning as much as you can before you quit, Kate. Knowledge is power, forewarned is forearmed. The more you understand and to expect, the more power you have over the addiction. I'm glad you've joined us. Shevie [B]My Milage:[/B] [B]My Quit Date: [/B] 5/23/2005 [B]Smoke-Free Days:[/B] 389 [B]Cigarettes Not Smoked:[/B] 7,789 [B]Amount Saved:[/B] $1478.2 [B]Life Gained:[/B] [B]Days:[/B] 72 [B]Hrs:[/B] 14 [B]Mins:[/B] 40 [B]Seconds:[/B] 30

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