OK, this forum is clearly the place. it's 4:30 pm my time, and virtually the close of day 1 for me since I never smoked at home anyway. Despite my disclaimer of 'no aids' I did use a patch today. Only one bad moment when I went for a walk and could have, oh so easily, detoured to the gas station to buy a pack and smoke 'just one.' But managed not to do it. So far so good, but I just hate the thought of it being forever -- that's what I've got to get used to.
Thanks, all, for your encouraging words.
Determined