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14 years ago 0 11214 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
What a great thing to write about on your blog goofy!
 
I would really love to read it. What kind of information would you include?
 
 


Ashley, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 1044 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I connected to this on facebook.  I like it the facebook version too.  and the link to 'the happiness project".  I think I need to create my own "happiness project" as the site/author suggests.
 
 
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very interesting.....
she needed cheering up; she mentioned the effects of tea and coffee- I wouldn't suggest that to those of us with anxiety disorders - but the decaf variety is in stores these days.  lol
Be as much as you can in the open air without fatique - I guess putting on masks were just as common back then; but is sound advice to quit before we wear ourselves out.
I could comment on each one - enough of that.  I like it and will read the link as well.
 
14 years ago 0 224 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
We thought this article might be fun to read and it does give some ideas on how you can cheer yourself up.

Have a read, and let us know what you think. Do you have any other ideas you can add to the list?

"In 1820 English writer Sydney Smith wrote a letter to an unhappy friend, Lady Morpeth, in which he offered her tips for cheering up.  Most of Smith's suggestions are as sound now as they were almost 200 years ago – though a few are amusingly odd, and it might be tougher today to work "good blazing fires" into everyday life.
 
1st. Live as well as you dare.
2nd. Go into the shower-bath with a small quantity of water at a temperature low enough to give you a slight sensation of cold, 75 or 80 degrees.
3rd. Amusing books.
4th. Short views of human life—not further than dinner or tea.
5th. Be as busy as you can.
6th. See as much as you can of those friends who respect and like you.
7th. And of those acquaintances who amuse you.
8th. Make no secret of low spirits to you friends, but talk of them freely—they are always worse for dignified concealment.
9th. Attend to the effects tea and coffee produce upon you.
10th. Compare your lot with that of other people.
11th. Don’t expect too much from human life—a sorry business at the best.
12th. Avoid poetry, dramatic representations (except comedy), music, serious novels, melancholy, sentimental people, and everything likely to excite feeling or emotion, not ending in active benevolence.
13th. Do good, and endeavour to please everybody of every degree.
14th Be as much as you can in the open air without fatigue.
15th. Make the room where you commonly sit gay and pleasant.
16th. Struggle by little and little against idleness.
17th. Don’t be too severe upon yourself, or underrate yourself, but do yourself justice.
18th. Keep good blazing fires.
19th. Be firm and constant in the exercise of rational religion.
20th. Believe me, dear Lady Georgiana."

Source: Rubin, G. The Happiness Project. Tips for cheering yourself up--from 1820. Posted July 19 2006. Available online: http://www.happiness-project.com/happiness_project/2006/07/index.html.  Accessed: December 14 2009.
Luciana, Bilingual Health Educator

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