Samantha, I think I've discussed the condition I've let my house get into as a result of not taking care of things. I've taken some positive steps to get things better here in the house. I've got someone coming to look at a broken window that needs to be replaced.
I was talking to my boss yesterday and as she needs something "to do" this winter, she said she'd come and help me (volunteer) with the floors, painting, etc.) Sooo, not only do I have something to do this winter. I have someone to come help me (will also help with motivation and making myself get up to do it) and will love the changes and knowing it's looking better all the time.
My house was like an atrium, but I lost several plants when I wasn't home during dad's illness. Anyway, I'm working to replace those and it's filling up again. I love plants and I do water those most of the time on a regular basis.
I've been thinking about the sunlight for four years, done lots of reserach, just haven't done it. I don't know about thta one.
My friend did come here one weekend to visit and we spent two days getting my kitchen cleaned out, getting some of the inheritied stuff put in the cabinets and taking stuff off to a donation center. Cleaned it from top to bottom. I've been able to maintain that for over 3 weeks now! I let it get cluttered for two days but NOT dirty. And I decluttered it.
I got my dvd player and a new Tai Chi video - I started yesterday. My son is going to come today and set up the Wii and show me how to operate it.
I'm doing things to help myself. It just takes so much energy(mental) to do anything some days.