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14 years ago 0 6 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Goofy:
 
Thank you for the support.  I am going to try to get this homework incorporated into a routine for myself.
 
Zinnia
14 years ago 0 1044 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Zinnia,  I think it is important to schedule a time to do the homework.  As you learned, it helps a lot and will help you as this program builds previous sessions.  I know it's hard to make yourself doing it when you are "feeling fine". 
One thing I do to help with a routine is get on here first thing in the a.m.  When I'm here I review the session I am on and/or do some meditation/or simply look at ablog.  At first the homework is time consuming, it gets easier.  I bought a calendar to track everything that I needed to do on here, as well as in my professional life and things the doctors wanted me to track.  I felt like I spent most of my day writing down most of the rest of my day.
I can tell you - it helps and it works.  You will be able to see the fruits (or flowers - zinnia) of your labor.  I didn't have a set time to do anything initially, just on a whim.  I wasn't that organized back then.  As time passed and I got to completing all the homework and tracking forms, I finally found a time of day that worked best for me.  Mine is early a.m. and late (lol - it's around 9:00 p.m. usually).  Anyway, if you forget a day, make sure to do it the next day.
There was a post on here, when I first came here, that joked that someone needed to write a book with all these worksheets and all the other things people with depression need to monitor.  lol  I haven't seen one published, but bet if I do, I'll buy one.
I wonder if the Depression Center thought about a fundraiser by selling this type of book.  I don't think it would be exploitation but a real asset to those working the program.  lol, it would need blank pages in it so we can track thingss for the doctors too. 
Anyway, I got sidetracked as usual.  I think the more you do it, the easier you'll find it to fit it into your routine.  That's how it worked for me anyway.  It's too important to just NOT do it! 
14 years ago 0 6 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Ashley:
 
Hi, thanks for replying to my post.  I think when I felt good a few days back, I had kept myself busy most of the day. 
 
I'm just so overwhelmed with all that needs to be done.  I am looking for a job, considering ways I need to improve my skills for my career, renovating our house, keeping the house clean, shopping, taking care of our pets etc.  My husband is spending a lot of time away from home these days because of his job and while it is nice to have some time to myself, I tend to get less motivated the more I am alone.
 
The really positive thing I have been doing lately is following my diet and exercise program very well and losing weight too.  I've been very reluctant to start the training programs to improve my skills at work.  I'm in my 40's and having a tough time thinking positively about what lies ahead in my career.
 
Zinnia
14 years ago 0 11214 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Hi Zinnia,
 
Routines certainly help.  It may be easier to follow the routine if you schedule in rewards for yourself. For instance, if you do your homework on this site you are allowed to do something you enjoy for a certain amount of time.  Scheduling can be fun! You can also leave room for flexibility.  
 
Tell me more about how it felt not to be depressed?  What did you see differently?  What did you do differently?
 

Ashley, Health Educator
14 years ago 0 6 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
I just got started a few days ago.  First three days I printe out my activity tracker and filled it out.  One of the days I felt really good, at least for me, I almost felt like, "oh this is what it must feel like to not be depressed."  So, then I started thinking I wasn't so bad off afterall and didn't need this group.  For the next few days I didn't fill out the activity tracker, thinking I could easily catch up and just fill them in a day or two later.  For those days, I was feeling worse each day.  Now, I can't even remember specifics for those days to fill out the form. 
 
I guess I'm not doing my homework very well.  I'd better create a routine about filling out the form.  My problem is that I am not good about following "routines."

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