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Hi ... I was on Effexor for awhile and it was just ok...as soon as I got off of it, my libido skyrocketed. So to speak
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Thanks for your message and your support. I wish I could talk to my husband about it, he refuses to believe there is a problem, there are 'other things more important', it is making me so sad, we have only been married 5 weeks today and it is ruining it
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Hello Londongal, Welcome to the Depression Center. You will find a lot of spouses on this site. Sexual dysfunction is a common side effect of anti-depressant medication but it effects people differently. I would recommend that you talk to your husband and perhaps the two of you can visit his Doctor together. Keep posting and let us know how you are doing. Susanne
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Can anyone help please, my husband (of 5 weeks) has been on Efexor XL slow release tablets for 2 years. He is a recovering alcoholic (dry for 2 years). Our sex life is non-existant and I am wondering if it is the Efexor causing it. Before we got married we did not sleep together as he is a practising Christian and sex before married is a definite 'no'. Have tried talking to him about he but he refuses to admit that there is even a problem - to me there is, in the last four weeks we have only slept together once, he just has no interest in sex at all.

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