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exposure to distressing thoughts - discuss Nov. Ask the expert question

Hi loves trees,
 
Section 1 , your homework is to write down the anxious thought. When you move to section 2 and 3, you start to challenge those anxious thoughts , by examining these thoughts. For a thought such as "I will die alone", section 2 homework involves 3 steps , and in Section 3, there is homework which involves asking 10 questions. You will become aware of the distressing thought, and then how to challenge it.
 
Overtime, challenging an anxious thought will become automatic.
 
Be kind and gentle with yourself. Keep telling yourself that you are a good person, worthy of love and affection of others.
 
 
Helena, Health Educator
13 years ago 0 221 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
What´s up with this?

Hi upsidedown,
 
Congratulations on being up front and honest about your prosopagnosia. It sounds like you're very comfortable explaining it to others. Its a wonderful example that people react in completely opposite ways, and in your case very empathetically, to the difficulties we encounter.
 
Davit, when an individual is anxious, is does result in a lack of concentration and can impair memory. However, I would suggest talking to your doctor about these symptoms and if you have trouble viewing things that are in front of you, as upsidedown has experience. Its important to be able to rule out any other causes of these symptoms.
 
 
 
Helena, Health Educator
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How to avoid Holiday Stress Part 2

Hi Members,
 
Red, what are some new and fun rituals would you like to create? Is there something you've wanted to do during the holidays?
 
Loves trees, sounds like Thanksgiving was a real mix of emotions. As you do work through the program, the moments where you experience stability in your thoughts and emotions will increase in duration and frequency. Sounds like your accepting that you experience a variety of emotions, and that you're feeling optimistic that doing the program will bring more moments of steadiness.
 
You are making a lot of changes right now. You're doing the program, and inviting new people into your life. With all these changes, you need support from other people. If these people could support you, what would that support feel and look like? What are specific things they would do that would be the helpful?
 
 
 
 
 
Helena, Health Educator
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Completing the Panic Program

 Hi Teebs,
 
Congrats on finishing the program and reaching one of your goals!
 
You're a great example for all our members!
 
 
Helena, Health Educator
13 years ago 0 221 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Preventable Threats

Members,

The article “Men’s health: Preventing your top 10 threats” (2009), by the Mayo staff clinic, reports that threats to men’s health are mostly preventable. Number one of the list is heart disease, and the list of suggestions includes not smoking, physical activity, maintaining a healthy weight and drinking in moderation. Number two is lung cancer, and of course, not smoking and using tobacco products, along with avoiding second smoke is recommended. In the other preventable threats, not smoking and exercising is a repeated suggestion.

Members, you’re all improving your life in some way, shape or form. Through your journey, have you considered your overall health? Is your overall well being important to you or are you content with focusing on the problem you are currently tackling.

Furthermore, how capable do you feel in preventing disease?
 
Helena, Health Educator
13 years ago 0 221 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Myth or Fact?

Myth: If I lose control during anxiety attacks, would it lead to paralysis?

Fact: Some people during a panic attack believe they are going to "lose control." Presumably, they mean that they would either become totally paralyzed or not be able to move, or that they would not know what they are doing.

Helena, Health Educator

 

 

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Can´t Live Like This Anymore

Hi Spartan,
 
If I could, I would give you a big hug! That sounds like a rough night.
 
I echo what Queens06 has said. Work through the program slowly, at your own pace. Be patient with yourself, and in time you will be able to return to the concert venue.
 
The situation has fuelled something in you, so take that energy and channel it into healing. You will emerge from this victorious!
 
 
Helena, Health Educator
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exposure to distressing thoughts - discuss Nov. Ask the expert question

Dizzy,
 
In the psychological community there are different beliefs about core beliefs, and it has resulted in different types of therapies. So a therapist will address core beliefs depeding on the type of therapy that they practice.
 
Childhood is a time when many of our core beliefs are formed. As adults we may be able to identify when or why these core beliefs were formed, and if we can, it can be helpful. If we can't, we can still challenge them and change them. The way each person decides to treat their anxiety is very personal, and there are many roads to recovery. It is up to the individual to decide which path they would like to take during their healing.

Helena, Health Educator

13 years ago 0 221 logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo logo 0
Weekend Prep

Have you started the program yet?  Take the time to look through the program and see the difference it can make!  The tips, tools and knowledge are essential within your preparation to get you started.  Fill in the assessment and questionnaires and keep a copy for you files.  Print out key information that will help you with your every day goals and milestones.  Don’t get discouraged, take your time and watch yourself change and become a better and healthier individual.  We are always here to help and assist, so post often and let us know how we can be of assistance to you.

 

Helena, Health Educator

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Discouraged

Hi Brightsunnyday,

Thank you for writing.

From what I understand, you’ve seen numerous mental health professionals and have tried many types of medication in you life. You have expressed your frustration with not being given a clear diagnosis or cure. Your current frustration is that you are located in rural Canada, and you have limited access to health professionals. When you can see them, your experiences with them have been frustrating and unhelpful. They have either told you not to worry or have not understood your role as a new mother.

What do you think is the cause of your mood changes? What does your intuition tell you? You know yourself better than anyone else, and can be your best resource.

I understand that you’ve used the depression website, and the tools, but you have not been able to come to an understanding of the cause of your mood changes
I would encourage you to be patient with yourself. Coming to an understanding of what triggers your feelings of changes in mood can take a while. The answers are often complex, and may not be immediately apparent. There is always hope. Moments of insight come at different and unscheduled times. The most important thing is that you are aware of your changes in mood and you are seeking answers.

What is one thing you have learned about yourself and your moods?

In addition, congratulate yourself for all the positives actions you are taking in your life. You are eating well, exercising and independently tracking your moods. This is a lot of work to do while raising children and you should be proud of yourself.

Also, is there any way you can travel to see a health professional?
 Finding a good mental health professional can take time. It can be frustrating and discouraging at times, but I encourage you to find a professional who is a good fit.

Members, can you provide your own experiences with finding a mental health professional that is right for you?

Helena, Health Educator