n00b ..
Hello and welcome to our support group!
You mentioned that you are not quite a group person, and like to be more solitary, well that's ok too. Just remember that if you ever feel like reaching out or want to vent, someone will be here to lend an ear. You have obviously gone through a lot of difficult things, have you sought any professional help to deal with these issues?
If you look to the left of the screen under "TOOLS" you will find many supportive tests which can prepare you with information that you can present to your physician. They can be used as a great conversation starter.
Also take the time to look through the program, it has a lot of useful information and you can work through it on your own.
If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask any of us, we are here to support and help each other out!
Luciana, Bilingual Health Educator